Will you help your friend when they have problem with their love???
By vidhyavini
@vidhyavini (6111)
India
October 10, 2008 7:58am CST
Hi everyone.
Everyone here will be having some friend being in love. Do you people help them in their love??? Some people will ask us to convey their love to someone else. Will you do that?? Will you propose someone for your friend??
While coming to proposal, I won't help them. They just need the guts to tell that directly. If they are facing some other problems in their love, then I will definitely help them.
How about you???
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@vidhyavini (6111)
• India
11 Oct 08
Ya that is also a form of help and thats definitely needed. It just gives them some support when they are having problem. Thats enough to do. Good job. Happy to have your response. happy mylotting.
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@vidhyavini (6111)
• India
12 Oct 08
Ya you are right. Better to be on safe side first. Lol.
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10 Oct 08
I wouldnt, because last time i did, the girl liked me not him
@vidhyavini (6111)
• India
11 Oct 08
Oops. Thats a bad case. Other than that proposal thing, will you help your friend with his/ her love problem?? Will you give advices on how to solve it???
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@potrish78 (742)
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
I think that has always been my role in this world. A shoulder to cry on whenever a friend is in trouble with love. I would be glad to listen and give good advices to my friends in terms of love. I usually give them two scenarios and tell them the pros and cons, then I will let them decide for themselves. When it comes to helping them professing their love, I'm out of it. I'd rather that they do it for themselves. I have had several instances wherein the guy would ask me to help him with a girl but the guy always end up falling in love with me instead.
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@vidhyavini (6111)
• India
11 Oct 08
Haha. That creates problem with their love and problems in your friendship too. Why to take such a risks?? I am also out of it. Lol. Giving advices is what I will also do. I will just talk with both of them and tell the solutions. I will let them take their decision after that. Happy to have your response. Happy mylotting.
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@sumiirajj (1983)
• India
10 Oct 08
Hi friend,I will never do that because even If I had fallen in love I wouldn't have the guts to express then how will I help someone.I'l not interfere in love matters because that relation ship is very sensitive.Anything can happen.The females scared of something or other would turn upside down in their love and even the males would do that sometimes.So how can we interfere in such matters?thanks for sharing.happy mylotting.
@vidhyavini (6111)
• India
11 Oct 08
As you have mentioned it definitely needs more guts. Lol. When your friend has some problem with her love and she is just so upset with that. What will you do by seeing that?? Won't you ask her what her problem is?? And won't you just give some consolations or advices on how to work on it??? Thats what is help. Will you just move on when your friend is in trouble???
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@rushtovelk (93)
• India
23 Nov 08
As you said i too wont help out to express ones in spite of other,because love should be expressed to your beloved deep from your heart straightly.
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@bhushanbodkhe (819)
• India
11 Oct 08
i had came accross this situation various time...u knw m a kind of guy who mix up with gals very fast so one of frd who was in immortal love with my classmate...asked me to plz let her knw tht he loves her....i thought tht i can do tht for my frd so i went to her and asked her wht she feels abt my frd.....i told her tht he likes u n really loves u a lot....but u knw wht happened at the end....She said the boy is like brother to her.....lol :) now tht was the end of the story...hehehehe hope u enjoyed but tell u one thing tht frd of mine was hurt badly...n i still remember his tears......Now its 5 months over n he is ok!!
@vidhyavini (6111)
• India
12 Oct 08
Yup. Everyone just have their own wish right. Nothing wrong from the girl side also. Time will be the best medicine for your friend and hope he will find a gal that suites him. Happy to have your response. Happy mylotting.
@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
23 Nov 08
I would be happy to help a friend in need when it comes to them establishing a love relationship if they need advice.
I want to be a good friend and I actually only give advice if it is warranted or they ask me. I don't like to step over any one's toes so to speak.
Being a good friend means being there if someone is having trouble in the love department and just needs a little extra push in the right direction.
I think it would not be a problem to me to help someone come up with the appropriate words to profess their love to someone.