When did you last cried...TOGETHER?
By neilchua
@neilchua (888)
Philippines
October 10, 2008 5:19pm CST
i've started working grave yard shift for about a week now and this will be my schedule til December. I kinda like it because the workload is much less compared to that of the usual office hours. plus the fact that i do get night differential pay. That's the good part.
The bad part is i don't get to spend much time with my partner. whenever she arrives home from work, it's my time to go to work. it was very big adjustment for both of us. She was crying every night because i was not beside her when she's about to go to sleep.
yesterday was my day off, so we did get to have some time together. when we were about to go to sleep, we both cried and told each other how we missed each other. i told her to be strong and should get used to the current situation. i told her that at least we both have decent jobs, though some sacrifices should be made.
i'm still not sleepy coz i'm used to working late. but i hug her until she fell asleep by my side.
P.S. i wanna thank mylot cause we both received our payout this month. it sure does help pay our credit card bills. lol.
P.P.S. I love you bee. mwah. smile always.
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@donn_juan (325)
• Philippines
14 Oct 08
it sure is tough when we miss our partner terribly. and that's main the reason why i fight with my husband. i miss him and i can't do something about it..he's miles away from me! im not misleading you but at the end of our fight, that's when we cry..TOGETHER! we cry because we miss each other, it makes us cry more because we know how much we love each other yet sacrifices must be made.
keep the faith!;o)
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@jstmarfz (1498)
• United States
10 Oct 08
I understand what your partner feels. I can not remember when was the last time my hubby and I cried. But I knew why we both cried that time. That was when we reminisce our painful past. I cried first and when I turned to him he was crying too. He embraced me and comforted me. Regarding with work, it is really hard if you barely see each other. My hubby leaves for work 5 or 6 in the morning and then I am taking my driving class so we just see each other at 8 at night already. But we never missed of having conversation before going to bed. That's life. In order to have a better life we need to have little sacrifices.
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