When did you realize you had first fallen in love?? Are you still together now?

United States
October 10, 2008 6:25pm CST
When was it u decided i have fallen in love with this person? That i want to give them all of me and open up my heart to them? To marry them and have kids. Everyone falls in love at different points in a relationship....some of us fall fast and hard, others like to take their time . I first realized i was in love with my boyfriend after we were together for about 3 months. Most ppl find that hard to believe but like i said its different for everyone. What about you? When and how did you know?
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@zeroflashx2 (2491)
• Philippines
11 Oct 08
It was 12 years ago when I was in high school. I was really attracted to one of the girls in our batch (we were juniors at that time) and she was really pretty. I started to court her out of curiosity and I went well. But months passed and I didn't even bother to continue as I don't feel anything serious. It was when me and one of my best friends felt it suddenly and we had our first dance at the prom. We really enjoyed the moment and it went off from there. You know that feeling that there's something heavy in your chest when you think of that person. I just wanted to be with her and so did she. It was around a week after the prom and it was when we started. Until now, we are still together.
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• Philippines
12 Oct 08
Thank you Micha! Well, it's kinda hard to maintain though but right now, everything is perfectly fine. We plan to tie the knot next year though. Take care!
• United States
11 Oct 08
im glad 2 hear that you two are still 2gether . its pretty rare that high school sweethearts stay 2gether!
11 Oct 08
hey!baby. yes,i agree with u . different ppl, different way to fall in love. as for me, i cannot remember clearly when i fell in love for the first time as it has been a quite long time since the love broke up. neither can i tell u when i realized i fell in love as i never ever think about this question. just follow the feeling, what i do will tell me if M loving someone. when it comes to my first love, just like the first love of most of other ppl, it is very memorable and sweet, but also a little blue..... hehe, i don't want talk it more, however, thx for ur nice topic! Njoy.baby.
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• United States
11 Oct 08
yes that is true . most ppls first loves are very memorable . i guess b/c you encounter so many things in that type of relationship and is a period of learning how to make a relationship work and what love really is.
11 Oct 08
yes ,u got it exactly. to some extent ,first love is indeed a good practice of love for most ppl. thx for comment. good luck with u ,baby.
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@Zelmarq (12607)
• Cebu City, Philippines
11 Oct 08
I did fell in love, we are no longer together but we still are good friends and respect each other. Its a matter of respect and after 8 years we separated coz we felt we have to give God first priority and if we were meant to be then we will end up with each other.
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• United States
11 Oct 08
Im glad to hear that you two are still good friends. I think that is a good philosophy you have that if it is meant to be it will be. well good luck 2 you and whatever happens.
@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
11 Oct 08
I had strong feelings for my husband almost immediately. We were both on the coed tennis team and drove there together, we both liked each other but neither one of us knew if the other one liked the other one. It took him 3 weeks to finally make a move. On our 3rd official date, we had decided to meet up at a club, he with his friends and me with mine. I ended up accidently locking my keys in my car and he drove me home to get my extra set, we had such a nice conversation and I had this strong feeling come over me. I asked him to please pull over and I just hugged him. I knew at that very moment I was in love. According to him he fell for me the moment he actually talked to me for the first time. We have been together for 23 years.
• United States
11 Oct 08
lol. wow thats funny but thats really good that one of you finally revealed to the other how you felt. im glad to hear you have been 2gether for 23 years ! thanks 4 responding.
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
11 Oct 08
i feel in love the first time at 15 or 16, it didn't last because of me. then i feel in love the second time at 17. i knew i did, because all i could do is think about her everyday and night. couldn't get her off my mind. and 24 yrs later we are still together. still falling in love with her everyday
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• United States
11 Oct 08
aww that is soo sweet. i first fell in love at fourteen...it lasted four years but things just fell apart . Im now very in love with the man i am with and dont think there is anyone else i would want. im glad to hear that you two are still 2gether after 24 years.