invitation etiquette

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so may parent and i are constantly fighing about this.my fiance and i are getting married march 28 of next year, and on my invitations, i did not mention my parents names. the reason that i didnt mention them is because in the invitrations, it says that him and i are hosting the event, menaing we are paying fopr it woith little or no help, which is true. now, my family is hispanic, so i made english invitations for my friends and co workers, and spanish for my family. i made the english invited first, and when my mom saw them she bluntly told me that she was not going to give the spanish ones to her friends if they did not say her and my fathers name, when i brought it up to her that they were not paying for the wedding, and barely helping, she said she didnt care if she was helping or not and that the would attend if her name was not on the invites. so all of the spanish invitations have my parents names as the hosts of teh wedding, which really REALLY annoyed me. so english sont have my parents names and spanish do. is it wrong of me to not put my parents names when theyre clearly not halping with anything, or should their name have gone on there anyway? i really do find it annoying that i felt forced to do that on my own weding invitations for my own wedding, but i know my mother would have made a big fuss over it. co what do you all think?