I've decided to break up with her...

That really sucks. Having gone through many breakups, can I offer some suggestions? 1. Don't listen to any music for at least 2 weeks. Every song will stir up memories and you'll be in more pain. 2. Think of something that has nothing to do with her, which makes you smile (a puppy, another girl, a car)and every time she pops into your head, replace her with your happy thought. 3. Join a gym and work out every chance you get, or if that's impossible, then take up jogging and do it as often as you can every day. 4. Think of other things to do that make you feel good. 5. Don't talk about her to anybody. Write it in a journal (there are free online journals where you can pour your heart out. If anyone asks, just say, "I'm fine. I'd rather not discuss it right now." 6. Be super cheerful. Don't allow yourself to wallow. Don't rag to your friends. I know this is hard to do, but try your best to be happy, keep busy, improve yourself and do something interesting with your life. Before you know it you won't be able to fight all the girls off. There is a much better one out there waiting for you to find her. Good Luck!

Hello friend. Thanks for the advice. I'm doing well now. I've realized that though it was an unfortunate experience for me, I still learned some lessons from it nonetheless. Another consolation I can add is that most of the times, girls are the ones cheated on by their significant others. I could say this is one situation that could even out the things a bit. I'm not saying I deserve it, but I guess this could be an atonement for the wrongs other guys have done. Well, no use looking back at the past now. Gotta move on. Life and time waits for no one and we'll just have to live each day the best way we can and learn as much from them.

Hi friend. Thanks for the great tips. They really helped a lot. I'm doing much better now. In time, she'll be totally of my mind for good. Thanks again and have a great week.