Worst things to say when breaking up....
By Leixa003
@Leixa003 (867)
Philippines
October 12, 2008 1:48am CST
I had listened to a radio program and their topic was the worst thing to say when breaking up. And one of the entries where "I never really loved you anyway". And another entry is "You are getting fat so that is why i am leaving you". I mean is my body all you wanted and not who I am. It is really bad.
Another entry is "The other person has a disease and he tells his girlfriend, I do not want another disease so let us break up". Come on Am I a Disease?!How about you guys, what for you are the worst things to say in a break up?
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6 responses
@gracemanotoc (641)
• Japan
12 Oct 08
I love you but not in love with you anymore!! ouch ouch!! sad thing I heard from my ex bf after i told him..i can't find future in you!! that's really bad now! People break up because they thought things are not working out...but trust me after several months and after failed relationships after a break-up you would miss the last person who received all the sad words before breaking-up!! Most of the time before break-up we are either angry or so annoyed that you feel the urge to do everything just break it off...sometimes we don't look at how painful the words that comes out in mouth.
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@Leixa003 (867)
• Philippines
12 Oct 08
Yeah. That is bad but I know at that moment both of you was filled with emotions. Sometimes we say thing we regret later because we are not angry anymore. There are times that you just want to save your face, pride and just want to look good and say those bad words. Anger really blinds us sometimes.
@gracemanotoc (641)
• Japan
12 Oct 08
definitely! there was this one time i was so angry and in despair i packed up my things and went out of my ex house! Damn, I thought i can make it..the next 3 months was an agony...was crying coz i missed him bad but never dared to contact him after that.. i hate the feeling of regret that if only you can turn back the hands of time you would have not done it at the first place! by the way, just can't help wondering why ur asking about breaking up...are you in the situation now?
@CJay77 (4438)
• Australia
12 Oct 08
Hi Leixa, I just woke up and I'll try to give some more and I'm not sure if would make sense! I guess every words that you hear from breaking-up it can be worst! As for me if my partner tell me that he's not happy with me anymore or he find a better person that would make him more happy in life, this could be the worst words that I will hear from him. And also the one you said that leaving a partner because she/he is getting fat. Thanks!
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@Leixa003 (867)
• Philippines
12 Oct 08
You have a point there. Every thing you hear is bad when one is breaking up but I think the situation is bad so maybe just stop saying more bad things to make the situation worse right. But I prefer to hear the truth than hear those famous lines like "It is not you but me" or "I don't deserve you" kinda thing. ;)
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
12 Oct 08
I think the worst thing that you could ever say tp your boyfriend is that I don't love you anymore because you found someone else. It would be very hard for the ego of the person if you leave him because you just met someone new. He will then ask himself if what's wrong with him why you can't love him.
happy posting!
@YONGNIAN1987 (157)
• China
12 Oct 08
to break up ,or to save,so do i churish my love.i love her ,even we the day coming i will try my best not to hurt her ! I will wish her good luck ,maybe we are not friends anymore .
