what would you do if your spouse/boyfriend gets involved with someone else?

my world would be upside down if this thing ever happened & i will definitely leave him, no matter how much he justifies for his cheating. may be as time passes by i i will forgive him but i'll never accept him.

This scenario has happened to me already just two months ago. My ex boyfriend got another girl pregnant. He said he was drunk at that time, but of course i didnt believe him. We broke up. I dont think i would ever forgive him for the pain he caused me. We were together for three years and that's what he did to me. He texted and called me to say sorry and he wants me to forgive him but i just couldnt. I no longer trust him and no longer believe a word he says.

If ever i have a boyfriend/spouse who betrayed me, i will totally leave him. I can't leave with a man who were invlove to someone else. I can't also take that while he is away from me, he is with someone else.

already i have created this discussion..all replied to this question..please see it..for me..i will try to know the reason for that..i will try to corrrect myself..i will explain about my true love and i cant live without his love..if he is not happy with me..surly i will allow him to go with her..i will see that girl is suitable one to for my lover..i will keep my one eye on him and his happyness..i will wish him from my heart to have long life with that girl..

Same here rajat. I can't imagine too if my husband got involve to someone else. Once he made it,and i will forgive him, the trust that I gave to him will change and everytime he goes out, i would probably thinks he might be with someone else right now. And our relationship will be full of suspension so better not forgive once he do it. I am known by my husband to be jealous and I know that he is not the kind of guy who will flirt with other girls. And I really trust him, although we are far from each other right now. happy posting!

you know that is a good question i dont realy know what i would do i would be crushed if that happened to me i would have to think about my kids and how it would effect them if i was to be the smaller person and end it i would have to think about the money effect on my kids and wife there is a ton of this that you would have to think about before doing anything.

First listen to partner, why he/she needs to do that. If problem is from our side, try to rectify it. If not give a simple warning to not to repeat. If it persists even after warn, leave him at any cost. This time, you don't need to listen to you partner words.