Is modern feminism STUPID?

First, could you define what you think modern feminism is, not just what you see the effects of it is I don't think feminism has done anything negative to tv shows or divorce, but my definition of feminism may be completely different from yours.

Feminism is a strange phenomenon. Often the same ladies who demand equality in all things still expect a man who is now on equal salary due to feminist lobbying still to have to pay for dinner. They expect doors to be opened, to be admitted first, chairs to be positioned, bags to be carrried and due deference to be shown. It seems like they don't want to be equal, they want to be superior......