marriage???
By Betheltemple
@Betheltemple (54)
Philippines
15 responses
@margieanneart (26423)
• United States
7 Nov 06
Yes, if they make the commitment, then they should. I'm married 30 years.
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@Betheltemple (54)
• Philippines
7 Nov 06
tnx for the reply. am blessed of your committment. may you have a more fruitful years of marriage.
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@Betheltemple (54)
• Philippines
10 Nov 06
Thank you so much. I believe that we need a real and total committment to be settled in our marriage. God bless.
@sharon_1958 (823)
• United States
7 Nov 06
yes i do, i dont believe you should get married, unless you are ready for a life time together
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@Betheltemple (54)
• Philippines
10 Nov 06
well, in marriage there is always the word "COMMITTMENT" that's why we should be ready to commit and re-commit ourselves to our partner. if you're not ready, then don't do anything that would cause u to commit unwillingly.
@kataztrophy (1836)
• United States
7 Nov 06
I believe that one should try to work at the relationship instead of just ending it the first time there is a disagreement.
@Betheltemple (54)
• Philippines
10 Nov 06
yes i agree with u. But we should work it out of love. because you love the person, we should be ready to ask for forgiveness and to forgive.
@Betheltemple (54)
• Philippines
10 Nov 06
thank u. hope that you'll find ur lifetime commitment soon (If still don't have. . .).
@Betheltemple (54)
• Philippines
10 Nov 06
thank you. i think its not perhaps. . but am sure its God's gift that we could feel committed to our spouse/partner.
@Betheltemple (54)
• Philippines
10 Nov 06
why not??? one way way to prove your committment is to let her feel that you are ready to give anything.
@Mommamea (1215)
• United States
10 Nov 06
Isn't that why you get married in the first place! By signing a marriage license you are agreeing to be together for a lifetime. How ever! There are times when all else has failed that the license needs to be revoked. I think there should be a law that you can only get divorced 1 time and remarried 1 time after that. Three strikes shouldn't be the rule on this one.
@Betheltemple (54)
• Philippines
10 Nov 06
thank you. that's a very bold conviction! absolute commitment in marriage. . . i believe in u!
@lilcharityforever (65)
• United States
7 Nov 06
My husband and I have been together 15 years...I adore him as he does me..I strongly believe that humans were meant to mate for life..I never want to be without my hubby
@annereinee (144)
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7 Nov 06
marriage, love, for that matter, is a commitment, a vow.unless of course if there are really serious factors. especially when you got kids, it's all the more important to keep the marriage, and in keeping it, it doesn't have to be unpleasant, hard, or something that you only have to put up with. both parties should work hard to make it as wonderful as the beginning.
@Betheltemple (54)
• Philippines
10 Nov 06
thanks for the added knowledge of commitment. Love never fails. Even serious factors should not and cannot change our commitment to our spouse. We shouls not think of ourselves ONLY. in other words, We should not be self-centered person.
@rosey3223 (1566)
• United States
7 Nov 06
If you are married...then YES!! What was the point of getting married in the first place if you do not plan on making a commitment? If you get married and things go wrong and cannot be fixed, then I can understand. But the way that you asked that question gives me an image of a couple getting married and then one day, POOF, it is over. Then what was the point? Ya know?!?!! Marriage is not just a relationship that you can leave because you don't want to be with that person anymore, it is a commitment saying that you will spend the rest of your life with them!!!
@neofelis (145)
• United States
7 Nov 06
What the heck is a marriage for if it's not to spend a lifetime with someone? It's about an investment. Marriage is saying "Ok, I know we are going to continue to change and grow, but let's do that together, and pick a direction to go for both of us." If you are a Christian (like I am) a marriage is a vow taken before God to work together for your entire life to glorify him. Don't grieve the big man upstairs!
Plus, who is going to share your room at the retirement home if you get divorced?
@Betheltemple (54)
• Philippines
10 Nov 06
Hmmm. . .it seems that you're planning to get married. May u always be reminded that its a lifetime committment. God bless u!
@aakruti_new (2170)
• United States
7 Nov 06
Yes because marriage is a commitment between two people and we have to obey to it
