Question! About friendship. Help
By phyrethyme
@phyrethyme (1267)
Philippines
October 12, 2008 9:42am CST
What would you do if you have a best friend taking up the same course as you, only a year lower. You barely see him then you find out that he's been drinking with your girl classmates, known to be the bad girls.
What would you do?
3 responses
@Jillywinkles (28)
• United States
13 Oct 08
I would try to spend more time with him again. Maybe he just came under a bad influence. It's his decision what he does and who he hangs out with, but maybe you can get him back on your side if you guys get closer again.
@phyrethyme (1267)
• Philippines
16 Oct 08
Yeah well. He's apologizing now and everything. I can't find myself to forgive him but I'm trying to act civil with him.
@teamloud (91)
• New Zealand
1 Nov 08
Mate, I have to ask,are you and your best friend romantically or physically linked?
Looking at your profile, you're female and in your post you describe your best friend as male.
From what I see here in front of me it sounds like you are the "Jealous friend" or Jealous Girlfriend"
Please don't take this the wrong way, but life was meant for living!
You're only 19 (as per your profile) and you have many many years in front of you!
If your friend cannot see you for what you are, I think you should move on....having said that I know that is perhaps easier said than done, but I would also suggest that You perhaps have a higher "drive" to succeed in the field in which you study, and maybe your best course is to go hard with your studies and do what you can...FOR YOU!
As I cruise the North Island I see various statements printed on the back of various trailers of trucks that ply the same route as me,heres a couple of them....
1/ We're here for a GOOD time not a long time! (as per my profile)
2/ Friends are hard to find,GOOD friends are EVEN harder
From me? Bottom line is do whats right for YOU! and be happy!
My Family and I wish you NOTHING..but the very best!
Cheers
MrL®