Do you have lots of enemies?
@bhushanbodkhe (819)
India
October 12, 2008 10:50am CST
hello all...i m a student and i don't knw wht i have made so many enemies in my life.....n one more thing my enemies are the ones who were my best frds before..i don't knw whts my mistake....U knw i m a kind of guy who helps every single person....i participate in each n every activity of the class...Actually i have an image of allrounder in my class...i think this make many people jelious of me..is tht so?i always be frdly with everyone still i get enemies in my class who hate me badly...wht to do for such guyzz...do u feel the same???tell me
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@rymebristol (1808)
• Philippines
13 Oct 08
i am a student too before..and i tell you i have quite a few enemies in school whether it be in Elementary, Secondary and College.
there are instances where i am engage to school fights and ended up in the Administration and worse being suspended for 2 weeks..whooo
i thought i was ordinary but it's not haha
reason are many: some are because of girls, sports, academic, extra curricular activities etc...
i never thought that it would only be in school, but when i started working in a company..there it goes again..i had enemies..
@bhushanbodkhe (819)
• India
14 Oct 08
its not tht we two intentionally make enemies....it happens!!
gud luck!!
gud luck!!
@tickapa (331)
• Romania
14 Oct 08
May not know the proverb: Lord, defend me by friends as enemies I defend myself.
There is not really true friends, but enemies true, yes.
eal friends are few, and those we remain friends forever.
I have no enemies that I do not have too many friends ... i`m not very sociable.
@radukugalati (173)
• Romania
12 Oct 08
Well ... if you say you participate in every activity of the class , maybe your so called friends are jelous of you. Maybe you just need to give others a chance to do the things you do , and not to be the first one everytime you want to do something.
@elitess (5070)
• Ipswich, England
12 Oct 08
Hi there ! I can't say that i have enemies at all. I don't like fighting and i try to avoid it as much as possible. Even back in high school when some jerks would make fun of me i would still not fight back as i did not think it was worth fighting for as i knew in 4 years tops i would get rid of this people naturally without any effort and most of them never ever to be seen again.
@marshiemallows (1010)
• Philippines
14 Oct 08
i don't have a lot of enemies but i'm not sure about the number of people who secretly hates me though. lol. i usually forget about the things that happened between me and my enemies so we just get back to being friends without even knowing it. lol. i'm not the type of person who holds grudges against others.
@Jillywinkles (28)
• United States
12 Oct 08
Ways to not make enemies:
1. Be humble (often arrogant people are the ones who make enemies)
2. Be nice to everyone
3. Make sure you are not appearing as a know-it-all
4. Be responsible--follow up on your commitments
5. Be willing to forgive people
6. LISTEN to others, respect and value their viewpoints
