Have you lost anyone close to you?
By stellarjade
@stellarjade (1238)
United States
November 6, 2006 7:42pm CST
How do you deal with it? I lost a little brother. Its a hard thing to go through.
9 responses
@1luckyb (23)
• United States
7 Nov 06
I lost the 2 people I loved most in this world. I still think of them often and even after 10 years, sometimes I still cry. Losing someone you love will always hurt. People say it gets better, but what they really mean is you'll get used to it, learn to live with it, adjust. I look at it this way; I have loved and been loved by some of the most special people God ever created. That makes it worth the pain.
@stellarjade (1238)
• United States
7 Nov 06
yeah, i have not so much gotten over it, but dealt with it. I am glad for the time I got to spend.
@ausnikki (4054)
• Brisbane, Australia
7 Nov 06
I lost my mother when I was 18 under horrific and tragic circumstances.It took me a long time to deal with it and still have issues today some 20 years on.It is something you never get over.You just have to take each day as it comes.Hugs to you for your loss.
@stellarjade (1238)
• United States
7 Nov 06
ahh, thanks for the hugs. same to you. It has only been 2 years for me. It was also sudden and horrific circumstances.
@marciascott (25529)
• United States
15 Dec 06
Yes, I lost my baby boy, 6yrs. ago, that's a hard pill to swallow. time goes by we half to let it go, I still think about my son but, I know he's not coming back. Just think about the good times you all shared. we all are going to die. so just except it it's reality. And God will get you through it. He in Heaven think about it like that!
@shineison (874)
• Uganda
15 Dec 06
Lucky i did not but i am afraid what will happen when i will loose any dear one. i dont want to loose. like every one. I love my dears so much. its really hard to loose and only brave people can face this situation.
@tammytwo (4298)
• United States
14 Nov 06
The last person that I lost that was close to me was my uncle. It was very unexpected. He had a massive heart attack and he was only about 40 and in better health than most of the people in my family.
@blondegirl1975 (4298)
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12 Nov 06
I have lost a lot of my family now, i have lost both set of grandparents but i know that this is a very hard progress to go throu but i can only advise that time does make it easier.