Are you a quitter?

@bugz03 (40)
Japan
October 12, 2008 10:15pm CST
I admit that I am a quitter. I always give up easily for a non sense reason. Just a little misunderstanding I tend to give up with our relationship. I am not that strong not like my partner, I guess. But at the mean time I'm afraid of what will happen if I always continue this attitude of mine. My partner will always find ways for us to reconcile again. My partner do this things for 7 years. But the last time we argued on something, for a week I didn't heard anything from my partner. I was really anxious, that's why I decided to make the first move. I was struck when my partner said, maybe the time will come that my partner can't take it anymore. And with that, I was changed. I don't start nonsense arguments and I will try not to give up easily. That are the lessons I learned in this relationship.
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rsa101
@rsa101 (38148)
• Philippines
13 Oct 08
Now you know how things will go with you if you continue being a quitter. I guess when you feel a relationship is worth fighting for you should not be a quitter. You quit only if you do not find any happiness in it anymore. But if you still care for it don't let the other party do to make things right again. Because it may just stop at one point if they don't see any effort from your side.
rsa101
@rsa101 (38148)
• Philippines
13 Oct 08
That's a very nice lesson to keep and treasure in there. You can apply this to your relationship and to your life as well. Keep that in your heart always and I know you will never get lost in your life's dreams.
bugz03
@bugz03 (40)
• Japan
13 Oct 08
Yes, I learned my lessons. It takes two to tango. In a relationship not only the other half who will make or run the relationship. If I will lose her in my life nobody's to be blame except myself.
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meticulo
@meticulo (1286)
• United States
13 Oct 08
I do admit I am but that was before. Now I've learned my lesson. Its just a matter of pride. Now I guess our relationship improves because we try to talked it out when problems arise and won't leave it unsettled until the next day.Happy mylotting!
bugz03
@bugz03 (40)
• Japan
13 Oct 08
Yes, I guess that's another thing. I don't open up to my partner about what i feel. I just kept it myself and I always made it a big deal. Anyways, I know learned my lesson and I don't want to lose someone so dear to me.
wangkai
@wangkai (797)
• China
13 Oct 08
i admit that i am a quitter too.
bugz03
@bugz03 (40)
• Japan
13 Oct 08
I am a quitter but I'll try to change to save our relationship.
savitha_r86
@savitha_r86 (904)
• India
13 Oct 08
Nooooooo... I'm not a quitter,a person is called a failure only when he fails to try,when he quits. I have never wanted to be a failure in my fail. I have failed but i'm not a failure since I have never tried quitting. I never give up things that easily. When it comes to relationships I have got the best of all :) so will try to retain or sustain the relationship even when misunderstandings arise.. Cheers :)
bugz03
@bugz03 (40)
• Japan
13 Oct 08
You have a point but I am not perfect. But I will try to be a good partner to my half. I maybe a quitter when problem arises in our relationship but my love for my partner is always there. Nothings changed and my feelings are still the same when the first day I saw my partner. I am just lucky to have a partner who is patient and understanding. And is always there when I need someone. I will try to change myself.