Does it bother you when your wife is not a virgin anymore?

Philippines
October 12, 2008 10:54pm CST
I know it sounds silly but i just wanna know if it bothers you when you know that the woman you will be marrying is not a virgin anymore and worse she had an abortion with his ex. Are you still willing to accept her to be a part of your life? In our culture virginity is really important but it's all up to you if you really still gonna accept her. I am willing to accept anyone as long as i love the person as well as she loves me also. How bout you, does that really matter to you?
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@noelcruz (324)
• Philippines
13 Oct 08
no, it doesnt bother, as long as I love her and she loves me. Past is past.
• Hong Kong
11 Jun 12
Killer24 I have this same situation right now..my wife is no longer a virgin.He met this guy when she's still in 1st year college.At that time she was only 17 and the guy was 29( or older ). I can accept her for what she is right now, but the only thing that i can't accept was she's still connected to this guy when the time we've been together already. You know the fact that they have had this memories together haunts me.. For me it bothers a lot.. i hope i can overcome this..
• United States
13 Oct 08
If you really love her, than it should not matter. What is past, is in the past.