Which phase is better................. Before marriage or After Marriage

if i can choose it would be definitely after marriage. because we can always have what we have before marriage like courtship and everything we experienced on the before marriage stage. the phase after marriage is definitely centered on both of you growing old together. it's much exciting because challenges ahead are far greater than before marriage. the level of seriousness is also way beyond before marriage phase. isn't it something to look forward to - building a world only you two can build out of love and commitment?;o)

It's depend from person. If you are a family person you will tell after marriage if you are not a family person you will tell before marriage. In truth both parts are good and i was enjoying when was single and i am enjoying now when have family and kids.

I will say before marriage even i am not married :D. Because in this part only the child portion is coming, every one like the child ;D.

Think of it this way, you can not compare the two halves of your life and say which one is happier until you have lived both, besides the second half is where I intend to spend my life the most so will do everything to make sure it is the happiest.

i guess both has it's ups and downs. life is full of challenges and most of those challenges come after we get married.

I've still not entered my second phase of life but I'm sure that's not going to be an easy task. Now I just dont have any responsibilities,just do whatever I like. I'm open to everything. But that's not the case after marriage you should be more matured and more responsible and do household and cook ;-) Not at all easy :) Cheers :)