Jealousy or love?
By lovelyvelle
@lovelyvelle (639)
October 13, 2008 9:24am CST
People have different views and outlooks in life. Some people say they felt loved when their partner is a jealous type of a person, some don't agree with it because they felt like having no freedom in the relationship. What's your point of view about it? Is it really love or just jealousy? Care to share your points of view as well? Happy mylotting everybody!
3 responses
@lovelyvelle (639)
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14 Oct 08
Do you agree that sometimes, jealousy can cause breaking up the relationship? Maybe jealousy is alright when it has love with it, not jealousy of being possessive. But do possessive people really love that person or just wanting to keep her or him for pleasure for himself, because of ego. So why do you say that jealous is formed because of love? For me jealous is formed because of selfishness or pride.
@magicalangel (642)
• Brisbane, Australia
13 Oct 08
Somehow it is true because I will not say it is jealousy but it is possessiveness towards your partner. You can not see him/her with somebody else. Always want him besides you.
@lovelyvelle (639)
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14 Oct 08
For me, I got jealous to someone I loved its only because I want the person to give me all his attentions heheheh but thats being selfish I think. So even when I got jealous I just hide it and pretend that I wasn't. But I felt cared than loved when my partner is jealous at me. I still think that love never get jealous though. Anybody here have some views about it?
@karamellized (680)
• Philippines
21 Oct 08
I believe that love is giving, so when one is jealousy perhaps it is no longer love but you treat the person as a possession which should not be the case because as humans we yearn for individuality and at the same time for this sense of being needed.
