How can I behave with these bad people???

@keya2468 (289)
India
October 13, 2008 2:26pm CST
Presently me and my husband has to deal with this bad couple. this couple is creating much problem with us since we came in U.S. 6 months before. they are living in our next door & always try to heart us. we never misbehave with them. but it is their pleasure to heart us. what we do now? they always try to make our life miserable. can mylotters give me some helpfull suggestions?
4 responses
@TheCatLady (4691)
• Israel
13 Oct 08
That's a shame. You have a right to live in peace and quiet without being harassed. Don't listen to Hard Luck's advice. Just ignore your igit (stupid) neighbors. They might be xenophobic, or just jerks. I have idiot neighbors who insult everyone from every background different than theirs. If your neighbors cross the line and do anything illegal call the police. I could stoop to their level calling them stupid dirty XXXX'ans but I won't. I currently live in Israel and have friends from dozens of countries including the one their parents came from.
@keya2468 (289)
• India
14 Oct 08
I have tried to be nice with them. but as their mentality is mean , they keep on misbehaving with us. so I think we have to ignore them. thank you for your response thecatlady..
@keya2468 (289)
• India
14 Oct 08
thank you once again thecatlady for your support, response and blessings. I wish you a very good life...
• Israel
14 Oct 08
There is a huge difference between being a jerky neighbor and a terrorist regime. If her neighbors were trying to harm her or did harm her, I'd say call the cops and have their butts thrown in jail. Meow
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
13 Oct 08
You and your husband need to sit down with them and talk about the problem. Maybe they don't realize that they are making you miserable. Be as nice as you can be while you are talking to them and see if the four of you can work out whatever the problem is. If not then you're going to have to start avoiding them...tell them that you can't talk to them or see them because you're busy or something has come up that you didn't expect.
@keya2468 (289)
• India
14 Oct 08
we tried our best to improve the relationship. but they never changed. so now I think we have no choice but to ignore them. thank you for your response Spalladino.
@hardluck (375)
• United States
13 Oct 08
Don't be so nice, talk bad about them, put you trash in their door way, hey it works the people around me go inside when I come outside. And if that doesn't work get you a baseball bat and go upside their head with it.
@Sheepie (3112)
• United States
13 Oct 08
When you say they are bad, what do you mean? Are you trying to say they are attempting to physically hurt you and your husband? In which case, you might be able to file a police report against them. If they just bug you, ignore them. We don't talk to our neighbors, and they don't talk to us.
@keya2468 (289)
• India
14 Oct 08
no they don't physically hurt us. but they misbehave with us. you are correct. we will start to ignore them. we are civilized people. we can't misbehave with them like that. so ignorance is the best policy. thankk you for your reply Sheepie.