I'm I the only guy that dosen't like being single?
By Thorn679
@Thorn679 (111)
United States
October 13, 2008 3:47pm CST
I know there are a lot of guys that wish that they had a girl right now but I'm talking about not just wanting a girl for the fun time at night ;) or anything like that but for the actual relationship its self. I have recently broke up with my ex like 3 months ago and I'm tired of being single, I feel that I need someone to love again.
2 responses
@misskit (289)
• United States
13 Oct 08
Guys, I am old enough to be your grandmother, so this is just some grandmotherly advice.
You are both so young yet and you shouldn't push things. Keep dating, no harm in that, its a way of looking for the right lady for yourself. Don't jump into anything just because you are lonely or just plain tired of being single. Play the field a little, without thinking about getting too connected or too serious for a while. I am a firm believer, after all of my years on this earth, that the right person will come along when you are least expecting it, and she will just sweep you right off your feet.
Just be sure that you stay "safe" while you are looking, be nice, be polite, be gentlemanly, have fun, and she will be there somewhere, just waiting for you, like you are waiting for her.
Its the best advice that I have. Good luck in your search, it will be a great adventure, a learning expierence, and a piece of life to enjoy while you can.
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@Thorn679 (111)
• United States
13 Oct 08
Thank you misskit for your kind words, I hope that that one special person will come soon. It's funny because its true what you say, that I'm still young and I have manyyyyy more years to live and I believe that in at least one of those years, she will be there lol.
@misskit (289)
• United States
14 Oct 08
Thorn, she will be there, when you least expect it, when you are not really looking that hard, she will just be there, and you will know it, and it will be wonderful. Just have fun with your life while you can, do things and see things now, while you have the chance, just be young and happy and enjoy your life at this age. :-)
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@bcote212 (1112)
• United States
13 Oct 08
I am the same way, my partner and i broke up back in may after six years together, and now I am finding myself thinking about maybe getting back into the dating pool. I dont want to get hurt again, but i do wish that I had a companion to share my life with. I wond do it though until I feel that my heart is healed, and im ready to open my heart again.
