Are you well liked?
By BriNbai
@BriNbai (912)
United States
October 13, 2008 5:56pm CST
I would say I am easy to get along with and I am well liked. At work I talk to all my co-workers and I have a really nice work-relationship with just about all my co-workers. Its always been the same way for me. I know its not the same for everyone..One of my friends is a really nice girl but it seems like just about everyone that doesnt know her hates her. I Dont understand why. shes pretty,nice and smart and all the other girls we work with seem to have a problem with her so she mostly speaks to all of us guys. Which the other girls seem to hate even more.
I honestly think they are jealous of her but I dont know I just feel bad for her sometimes...
How about you?DO you think youre well liked?
Also why do you think other girls dont like my co-worker?I Dont understand?LOL
THANNKS IN ADVANCE FOR YOUR RESPONSES!
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7 responses
@miraclefreebies (3043)
• United States
14 Oct 08
Yes I do believe I am well liked. I really am a great loving person and very easy to get alone with.
If there's one person that doesn't like me, then obviously that person doesn't know me.
I will go out of my way to make a person feel wanted and cared for, why? Because that's me all the way.
I never say or do anything to a person that I wouldn't want done to me.
One of my dearest Mylot friends said the most sweetest thing to me today, she said that I'm a good person, but I truly believe that "SHE HERSELF", is a heart of GOLD.
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
14 Oct 08
[i]Hi Bri,
I've been in 3 different companies in my life and I have no problem dealing with different people though I am choosy when it comes to my close friends but I can mingle with all of my former co-workers, young and old, men and women!
I didn't notice anyone who was aloof before, everyone has a group!
There are reasons why some people are not life especially by almost everyone, sometimes, bossy, arrogant,over-confident and not flexible but I do know with your co-workers!
Maybe she is the one not making any move to be close to any girls since as you have mentioned, she is only close to the guys but I also don't have any idea about the situation![/i]
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@katkat (2378)
• Philippines
26 Oct 08
Maybe the other girls are just insecure with her especially that she only talks to her men co-worker. She should try to talk to other girls. It is eaier for guys to get along with girls. With girls there is always envy and insecurities with each other. It’s good that you get along with your co-worker. You seem to be well liked by people around you. In my case, I can easily get along with any type of person. People have different personality and we cannot please everyone.
@crazydaisy (3896)
• Canada
14 Oct 08
Well I go threw the same as thing with my friends allot do not like me
because I talk to all the guys and joke with them.they are jealous.
I think that what is going on at your work you are right about girls
they could be.
cd
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@jimssaftytips (507)
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14 Oct 08
Truthfully i am well liked by some and some i have irritated but truthfully i dont give a dam who dont like me im not here for people to like me if they do they do if they dont stay the hell away from me thats all i have to say about that.
@austere (2812)
• Philippines
14 Oct 08
maybe.. i dont know, but i have a lot of friends in the office, i am not having any problem with anyone of them. i have good relationships with my guy and girl officemates.. but of course those who doesnt know me has the tendency to judge me.. but i'm fine with it.. those whom i work with and those who know me, likes me for who i am.. and that's happy enough..
i believe there is nothing wrong with your friends those female office mates are just envious of her.. you know how you hate somebody who is better than you, guess that's what they feel towards her.. they judge and didnt give the person a chance to show her real self.. it's not your friends loss anyway, it's those small brained officemates loss for not knowing a good a true friend!
i believe there is nothing wrong with your friends those female office mates are just envious of her.. you know how you hate somebody who is better than you, guess that's what they feel towards her.. they judge and didnt give the person a chance to show her real self.. it's not your friends loss anyway, it's those small brained officemates loss for not knowing a good a true friend!