married men cheat because they want to cheat

United States
November 6, 2006 8:44pm CST
All a man has to do is call his wife, girlfriend, or even a girl that he knows to get another woman off of him, the thing is, he doesn't because he wants to cheat. I was dating a married man for six months befor the smoked cleared over her eyes. She had to know, this man was never home. "I have to work late","they need me somewhere else i'll be in a few hours" stupid stuff like that. Come on two in the morning call the man, i don't care if hes working. He wasn't dealing with missles, hes not a rock star of some sort. So anyway. She finds out and i get yelled at! i didn't married "miss i drink way to much, then like to yell at my kids till i pass out on the couch." i was just doing the guy who didn't have the common sense to go running and screaming in the other direction when he saw you coming, go yell at him. he's the one that didn't call you when we where doing it in your car.
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@dollbaby (595)
• United States
7 Nov 06
So you did her a favor by sleeping with her husband? If you knew he was married then you deserved to be yelled at. Regardless of the wife's flaws, nobody should have to deal with that. Have you ever been cheated on?
• United States
7 Nov 06
yes i have but i was smart enough to realize that i wasn't the only one. she didn't want to leave, thats not my fault. she didn't want to go to aa, thats not my fault. sleeping with the guy who wouldn't make her leave thats my fault but theres no reason for her to put me on the butcher block. there was time for her to fix her marriage with out him coming to me.
@dollbaby (595)
• United States
8 Nov 06
Oh I agree with you there. She should've been angry with him. Angry enough to leave his unfaithful a*s. However, I still agree that she had every right to be upset with you too. It would be different if you didn't know that he was married. When I read your post, it came across as if you were bragging. Like you were proud of the fact that you'd slept with a married man. I've been cheated on and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. I sympathize with the wife. Regardless of what kind of issues she's dealing with. If he's that unhappy than he needs to leave the marriage but he also needs to leave other people out of it.