Would You Marry Someone You Dont Know ?

@Ganesh44 (5547)
India
October 14, 2008 7:18am CST
Hey In India most cases parents decides whom his/her child should marry ? Do you think this is the right way to decide life partner for you children and even you ? OR do you think better way is to leave on child to decide for himself /herself ? Thanks Ganehs
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4 responses
15 Oct 08
Hi Ganesh44, I think the past tradition should stay in the past, I think it is wrong the parents are wrong to force their children into marriage with partner they have never met. It is so unfair to the poor couples, they may end up hating each other. Tamara
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@jzjqdkd (273)
• China
14 Oct 08
i think the right way is to let the children decide whom they want to marry,to marry whom they really love,really wish to live a whole life with.and parents only help the to seek their true love.
@Ganesh44 (5547)
• India
20 Oct 08
ohhh great ...you have got broad mind.... Thanks for your response and such a nice information... Happy Mylotting Take Care Ganesh
@APPCHEM (113)
• Pakistan
14 Oct 08
thats true & it is still happening in many parts of the world. well according to me i think the parents make the right decision in choosing the right partner as they are more mature & experience than us. they know what is right & wrong for their kids. they will chose an ideal partner for us as it is in my case & i have seen all my cousins marrying to their partners chosen by their respective parents. but in case if someone has fallen in love...they should get married.
@Kemnxiao (11)
• China
14 Oct 08
I think that it is unfair to our love and marriages. I am from China,in our country,many years ago,our ancestors had the same experience. At modern times,everyone have been emphasizing the free marriage. Fortunately,nowadays we can search for our favorite lover in our country,at the same time,our parents give us lots of important and experienced suggestion. So,in my opinion,I consider that we should have our own decision,moreover,we had better ask for our parents'advice.