Would you get married again, if you become single?
By ronaldinu
@ronaldinu (12422)
Malta
29 responses
@vmksvmks (413)
• Canada
16 Oct 08
I have heard many many say they would not remarry but months later and maybe years there they are married again I guess it depends on so many things you can not generalize A couple married for 50 years when there is only one left I hardly think would remarry You see so many widows and widowers that you have your answer there but the young ones in their twenties and thirties i would say very likely they would remarry Good Luck
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@teison2 (5921)
• Norway
14 Oct 08
I am not married, but I think it is almost the same as being married to be living with someone for many years so I'll answer anyways.
I might. But I know I'd be very careful. I'd want to know much more about the mans values than the last time. Not that I am unhappy with my man, but some of his values and statements have shocked me a bit.
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@elitess (5070)
• Ipswich, England
27 Jan 09
Hi there Ronaldinu. I must say that i really don't know if i would get married again, i think that this depends on a few things:
-like if i ever meet a person just as great
-or if i am at an age that is still worth concerning myself about this - i won't think about it if i loose my wife at 70-80 years old for example.
But in the end i can't tell you for sure if i would remarry ...
@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
27 Jan 09
It would take alot of consideration and thought to make me decide if I was to marry again. I would have to know that it is love and not a rebound thing. Or because I was lonely which can make people do stuff they later regret.
@seabeauty (1480)
• United States
18 Oct 08
I am in the process of a divorce and I am happy being alone. I would never marry again. Did it once and that was enough for me.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
20 Oct 08
I don;t understand why you have to marry the man/woman of your dreams. Loving is enough.If I were to marry, I would only marry once and love would have nothing to do with it.
@ketybhagat (4123)
• India
22 Oct 08
Marriage is a game of chance. You may move with that person for years and then get married and lo, you find that you are incompatible all of a sudden. You dont like his or her habits. So, its either you are happy, or make do with what you have or just divorce. So, even after finding the partner of your dreams, you may find yourself unhappy, or then it might be an arranged marriage and lo, you have found the woman of a lifetime. Its just plain luck and destiny to be with a particular person. Being married has its own charm and pros and cons. Its like if you experience it, you may regret, if you dont, even then you may regret.
@ella1bella (839)
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18 Oct 08
I would find it hard to say what I would do,if we talked in terms of finding another partner to equal the partner that I have ,I would never be able to find another mate like I now have.I suppose like many I may prefer to have a companion I am not thinking of that in the old fashioned sense,but ti have more of a very good friend who I could go out and about with,to dine out with and to have the odd trip to the theatre with.It would be extremely hard to come out of a very long term relationship and go headlong into another .
@LouiseKnittel (4764)
• United States
18 Oct 08
Well, This is my second marriage. I am not the kind of person that likes to live alone. I am not very independent. I do like the some aspects of being married. So I will have to say that if I found the right man, I would.
He would have to meet a lot of requirements. Mostly set by God. A few by me.
@iyah10 (4115)
• Kuwait
22 Oct 08
Yes, I did exactly my Filipino wife is my second wife but I do not have doubt to choose on her for I really Loved her so much and she do as well unto me and she is my perfect wife most of my taste he he he I just Loved her so much for that I am telling words like this way.
@Alexandria37 (5717)
• Ireland
16 Oct 08
I doubt very much that I would ever get married again. I have been married for almost forty years now and I dont think I could get used to living with somebody else and probably having to change and live a different lifestyle. Besides, by the time I would get to know another person well enough to marry them, I would definitely be over the hill.
@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
18 Oct 08
I became single two years ago this December and I'll never marry again. I don't even want to date. I'm done with men, that part of my life is over and I'm concentrating on more fulfilling aspects of living.
I wish you success, though, if you do become single!
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
15 Oct 08
iam single and yes i would if the right one came along. im a die hard marriage advocate. been married 5 times . trying to catch up with Liz taylor joke
@tamarafireheart (15384)
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15 Oct 08
Hi ronaldinu,
No, I wouldn't married again, I feel the same as you, except if I meet a man of my dreams.
Tamara
@Humbug25 (12540)
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15 Oct 08
Hello there ronaldinu
I have been single for 2 years now after fleeing with my kids from my abusive mariage of 10 years so I think you could say that I am most certainly not ready to jump right in to anything right now!! I have a friend who has a weekend boyfriend and their relationship works really well as they get the whole week to do what they like (apart from see others) and then they get together at weekends! I think that is what I would like to do if ever I found someone.