Did anyone hurt you so bad that you stopped loving them?

yes, i am only 17 and i feel like i have already stopped loving my brother. He is just constantly mean, rude, nasty and constantly upsets me and makes mean remarks. It has been happening for years he is so insensitive that he made me cry so much. My sister can also be very rude and nasty but alot of the time we actually get along, and i love her and no matter how awful she was to me i could tell that we had a relationship. My brother however, i feel, is a very cold person, and guess there comes a point in time where someone hurts you so much that you just stop loving them. I find it very sad, and i never knew what i did wrong but all i know now is that he hates me and i just dont love him anymore.

hi buddies nice topic 'it well honour forme that my lover came in my life and then she hurt me as well realy it well be very much enjoyfull for me and the thinking about that , that i well stop loving her its just funny to stop loving her . cos the love is the only thing which never came to an end hope that she well came in my life and hurt me hurt me hurt me Prince Sad

it happened to for so many times already, and what hurts most is that, the people who have hurt me so much is my mom. I still love her despite of everything and that is because I still consider her as my mom. but the pain is still here, and I think right time will come for this pain to go away..

I'll just leave the person and that would actually mean he or she does not care about you at all. I guess we have to move on and people deserve to have good things in life.

Yes it has happened to me,a year ago. I had a very close friend,would share every little thing with him and so did he. He was so so close to my heart. Thought he'd be my friend for my entire life. One day we got some misunderstandings,he got really serious and stopped speaking with me. I tried to patch up,in vain. He avoided me I was shattered. The worst thing in life that one could feel is when you are being avoided by a person whom you value a lottt.He's not in this country even. He's gone abroad for some work reasons. He din't even care to tell me b4 he left. I just came to know that from another friend of mine. I'd call them Dark days in my life. I'm a sensitive gal,emotional also. I cried for three long days when I heard that he has left this country. The saddest part is he doesn't even know how much I valued him. I've stopped liking him. But I can't hate him at any cost. Cheers

I did get hurt before, but not that bad. For me, I would think over why it happened, not blaming the other party, but really analyze the root cause. Sometimes we might be the one causing that too. I will improve myself and getting better. I believe better future will be there for us as long as we are willing to let go, stand up better than before. The hope is always there!