Is there a person you cannot forgive?

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I had a partner for 15 years. She had her cat, which became our cat, for 3 years before I met her. He was almost 18. He couldn't eat or drink without help, mostly from me. He was getting terribly thin. He couldn't see. He would walk around in circles, almost falling down. I told my partner he was suffering so much and we need to take him to the vet and do the right thing for him. She said, "He's my cat and I don't want to put him down!" I had to watch the poor guy suffer for 3 weeks. It was so inhumane! Finally, one day I came home from work and was searching my house for him. My partner told me she took him to the vet. I was devastated that she would take him without allowing me to say good-bye to him. This started out to be the end of our relationship. I could not forgive her for letting "our" cat suffer for so long. I could not forgive her for not allowing me to say good-bye to him. I knew she was a bit selfish, but this took the prize. It opened my eyes to her selfishness. I forgave her for alot of her behavior, but these two things, I just couldn't forgive. It also opened my eyes to the fact that she wouldn't take my opinion or advice on the things that really mattered in our relationship, but that is for another discussion! Anyway, I am with a partner now, that values my opinion and I value hers. We talk things out before we act on them. Did someone do something so wrong that you cannot forgive them? PEACE