What is most important when you choose a lover, wife or husband?
By airl1527
@airl1527 (355)
China
October 15, 2008 7:30am CST
When i was very young, i listened to many people and followed their advice. I tried to find a man who is tall, rich, kind and loves me very much to be my husband. But After many years of trying, i in the end found a man who is not tall, not handsome, not rich, but kind and loves me very much to be my husband. Of course, i had several opportunities to find a man who is tall and rich to be my husband. But i gave them up. Why? Because i realized that money couldn't buy happiness; a woman must be happy when she is loved by her husband. So i chose a man who can make be happy to be my husband. This is the best decision that i have made in my lifetime. My decision is very right. I am very happy, now. I will not trade this happiness for a large amount of money.
2 responses
@marty3888 (2355)
• Acme, Michigan
15 Oct 08
That's the way I feel. The looks is the last thing of importance. Personality is the most importance. That is what counts as far as how the two of you will get along, how happy you're going to be etc. I'll bet if motre people thought like hyou and me the divorce rate would be much less.
@bebeth (122)
• Philippines
15 Oct 08
good for you, that was nice..
glad you're happy..
if i would have a special someone, i hope we are of the same Faith and
that we truly love each other..
i am a Christian and i would love my family to be serving Him
and would like to raise my kids in a loving relationship with God..
