what if she/he always lie to u??

Indonesia
October 15, 2008 6:08pm CST
what did you do if she/he always lie to u? you don't know what to do coz she/he makes u love her/him every single day.
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9 responses
• United States
16 Oct 08
I agree with Bethany. Honesty, trust, and clear communications are the basis for any worthwhile relationship. You can't risk investing your entire heart into someone you cannot trust. Nevertheless, there's a difference between lying, and being innacurate. What kind of lies are we talking about here?
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• United States
16 Oct 08
I would hate to be lied to. Trivial things are one thing, but important things are totally different!
@esphyka (158)
• Philippines
16 Oct 08
what makes u love him/her when you know the fact that he/she is lying? it deserves a deep talk between the two of you/
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@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
16 Oct 08
Well I think their is still a limit with everything even though I love her each day! I just don't wanna let her abuse me of loving her and my kindness. I just don't want to be fooled or understand her and embrace the pain. I know that she knows what is right and wrong. If she loves me their is always the last time to lie. Have a nice day!
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
17 Oct 08
i agree with the person before me. but my thing is i am big on being honest with my wife and everyone else. if i am going to go over to a female house, i tell her. but i also let them meet each other as well.
@xayuk69 (267)
• Malta
16 Oct 08
yes mine lies to me many times.He tells little white lies but I do not like it because I myself am a very honest person . Because of all this he is making me loose my trust in him.
@rea_02 (49)
• Philippines
10 Nov 08
I experienced that with my ex. Well the first time that we've known each other was a very good start until the time that I found out that he lied to me, that was his first lie but we were not yet boyfriend/girlfriend that time, let me say that we were just a typical textmates who had a special feelings with each other. I got mad with him. Time passed, I fogave him and eventually we became partners. Well, we had our ups and down relationships. The main reason for that was of his attitude he kept on lying. He lied for several times so I'm fed up!! I broke with him. So waht I'm trying to say is that if that person lied to you give him a chance but if he continue in doing that well you should know how to end things between you and him. Nothing will happen to the both of you if someone is fooling you or taken you for granted. Giving another chance to a person is a very good thing unfortunately there's always a limitation. You should know and exercise it.
@Seathe (6)
• Canada
16 Oct 08
i would sit her down over coffee or somthing nice and talk to her/hom about it.
@donn_juan (325)
• Philippines
16 Oct 08
lies can ruin a relationship..it's a big no no.if you want the relationship to work, then lay the cards on the table. if he/she can't do that for you, then drop him/her. white lies may be tolerable depending on situations, but be sure he/she doesn't overdo it. good luck!;o)
• New Zealand
16 Oct 08
Mine lies to me constantly!...I dont realize what he says is a lie till later!...It could take 1 day...1 week...1 year!...But I normally discover the truth when he is drunk...He does not realize when he drinks he tells all...hehe...Which works in my favour!...Most of the lies I have caught him in were small & not worth causing a full on war over!...But he just cant help himself I guess...Even our friends marvel over the lies he has told them!...hehe