did you have love marriage
By anju_113
@anju_113 (339)
15 responses
@mansha (6298)
• India
9 Nov 06
Yes I did have one. But love or arranged you have to learn to adjust to a different environment and culture after marriage. success of marriage depends upon how much you are going to contribute to the relatiuonship without expecting other person to do so. Once you start comparing marriage is in jeopardy. One should have arrange marriage though as then you have support of your fasmily to resolve various issues which you can not handle when you are alone and living with a different family. Then you feel you have to adjust as you made the choice and you are pushed in to compromising too much tomake things normal. Once you get married then you realise the freedom of choice you have now at your parents house. You can choose to say no to so many things there.You are an Indian girl I think, I will tell you it is all rosey for first 3 years after love marriage then it starts to bug you how much you have given up and for what?You will miss your freedom the most.may be not early but may be after 10 years but it will happen one day.
@Bindasamol (88)
• Norway
9 Nov 06
I m also unmarried .But i think arranged or arranged love marriage is good.
@InvestigatorDee (105)
• United States
9 Nov 06
Yes, I have a marriage that is definitely based on love. I hope someday everyone finds the love that my husband and I have. It is truly wonderful! My advice is don't rush into getting married. I dated lots and figured out who I was and what I wanted in a man before I got married. It was worth waiting 30 years. Yep, I didn't get married until I was 30 years old.
