What prevents you from reaching your goals?

United States
October 16, 2008 12:15pm CST
I've read so many books on self improvement and personal development, yet I don't seem to get it. Why is it that for some people good things just happen and for others it feels like the world is determined to conspire against them? Most of the authors of the books I've read talk about overcoming adversity and to never give up, that's how they say they became successful, but I want to learn from real people who are just like me, still in the strugle of life trying to make it out there. What are your goals? What stands between you and your goals, and what are you going to do to make them happen? I've asked myself these questions many times, and have set different goals over and over but have not quite achieve them for some mysterious reason. Do you know what's stopping you and why? Please help me understand what stops you from reaching higher grounds and maybe I'll be able to understand what has been stopping me.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
17 Apr 10
I have some goals about my art and my writing. Last year I had an art exhibition at a cafe, it went pretty well and I sold more paintings than I expected. My next goal is to create a bigger exhibtion at another place. I guess that it is the fear of failure that prevents me from making that exhibition. I have to pay in order to rent the rooms at the art museum, it is pretty expensive and I am afraid that I won't sell enough paintings to cover the rent. In a way I just want to try it, but I am afraid that my exhibition won't be successful. I also have some goals about my writing and I would like to finish my collection og poems and my collection of short stories. What prevents me from reaching that goal? I think that I often try to convince myself that I have to do a lot of other things before I work on my poems and my stories. I keep procrestinating. I need to do the dishes, I need to clean the rabbit cages, I need to study for my exam, I need to write that letter etc. Somehow I just don't get around to writing my stories, and that is one of the things that I want to change.
@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
14 Apr 10
hi untacat, If there is something that might stop me from reaching my goals, it is becoming selfless. There were some instances that I become selfless, I give for the good of others. However, I used to do my best to reach my goals, despite of this personality. I believe that there is nothing wrong from being selfless, but there are also times that being too selfless is not good enough. Therefore, I should be balance of it.. Be selfless if it is needed but don't make myself get far away from my ambition due of being selfless.