How do you take something back?

India
October 16, 2008 1:03pm CST
In life we always land up doing something that we might not have chosen to be.. we might regret the decision sometime in the future but we are bound to make the choice.. why we do it no one really knows.. but we all know that we cannot take it back.. Every time your going through that pain.. all you seek for is a way into the past.. but can you really ever get there? Why is that we are allowed to move forward into the future but not move back into the past... Many times you would want to say something.. but you never could say it out loud.. yes.. these are very obvious things.. and so we never give such things a thought.. we are so busy in our daily lives that we forget that someone around us may really want to go back into their past and mend things.. but is unable to do so... what do you do when you bump into a friend who just cant move on? Finding solutions is the easy thing.. but actually being in that position is what makes it difficult.. What ever comes our way.. we must accept it.. or can we choose? Do we choose to go back into the past or we don't have a choice but to go back to our past.. you meet people are return to their old homes.. meet up with old friends.. do those kind of things.. we may not choose to do so.. but forgiveness is the only thing that helps us to take this step.. maybe not for ourselves.. but for the person who might come up to you without you even knowing it.. maybe someone is trying to move into their past.. and has come for your forgiveness.. but you may never realize it.. Would you forgive someone without knowing what you forgiving them for? Would you forgive only after making them realize their mistake?
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