"I need you" VS "I love you"
By kokopelli
@kokopelli (4842)
United States
37 responses
@SammiL (25)
• Australia
7 Nov 06
hmmmm i'm going to be greedy and say both.....they may have different meanings but it is sometimes hard to have one without the other...if your partner loves you but doesn't need you then your in trouble there...however if they need you but don't love you...well then your taking on the role of a parent!!
Overall i would prefer to hear love you if it's from the heart!!
Confused much?!
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@juicemilk (2283)
• Australia
7 Nov 06
I wanna say both too! But would probablt prefer I love you :)
@lilmissy (481)
• United States
28 Nov 06
i have heard " i love you " said so easily 100 times as if its the cure all answer to every argument
when said so often it becomes cheap
i would like to hear things like " i need you" " i want you" and mny others words of affection than just " i love you"
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@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
28 Nov 06
i understand what you mean, "i love you" had become an expression, sigh.
@pinkypop (662)
• Philippines
7 Nov 06
Both have beautiful meanings and are nice to hear but I do prefer hearing "I Love You" than "I Need You". Coz by saying the word "I Love You" it simply connotes that you are very much wanted and loved by the person and that you are so dear to him/her. Then thats when the "I Need You" phrase would come, wherein that person wants and needs you to spend his/her whole life with you.
While the simply "I Need You" connotes that the person needs you for something or in short, for a favor and that's not an assurance that he/she loves you or can love you back.
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@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
7 Nov 06
hehe, like we use "i love you more" instead of "i love you too". better sounding, better meaning :)
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
28 Nov 06
i guess some people wanna be needed, that's how they feel loved.
@dumbpenguin (418)
• Indonesia
7 Nov 06
like some ppl say
adult love goes i need u coz i love u
childish love goes i love u coz i need u
see the difference?
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@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
7 Nov 06
I would like to say both, but during romantic moments, I would prefer to hear 'I love you'.:) 'i need you' seems to sound very needy from a guy...it's like very dependent like that. So yeah, i would choose I Love you!
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@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
7 Nov 06
yeah, needy guys turn off gals, hehe. but it's sweet to hear you're needed, right?
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
7 Nov 06
yes, normally. but usually when they say "i love you", they do need us to do something for them just the same, hehe.
@mistysjavaspa (155)
• United States
7 Nov 06
I would rather hear both.. no I dont expect both all the time.. but i would like to hear them both.. More of the I love U cause that is the most used.. but it is nice to hear both every once in awhile.
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@minnie_98214 (10557)
• United States
28 Nov 06
I need you.......cause most men will say they love me just to get me into bed.