How do you want to be remembered?

I, would hope that people would remember that I always tried to find the good in everything no matter how bad the situation and would follow that. I, hope that my kids take respect and hold there heads high but not to high that they forget about the realities of life. I, would want the people in my life to grieve the way they want to and hope that I atleast brought happiness to one person in my life that I did not know nothing about. In, time people tend to heal but I do not believe they forget and I really would hate to know that something someone can not forget is something bad of me. I, Love my kids with all my heart and I need to understand that I did what I could for them and hope that I instilled kindness,and self worth in them.