Sometimes I Ask God....

When ever i do a wrong and when i feel its wrong, i always ask question to myself why i havent thought before i did that and in future i keep myself informed and change accordingly to overcome the previous instants..self questioning is always betterment of leading the life

Well, I ask questions all the time; why some babies are born handicapped? Why some places suffer so much tragedies like war, floods or landslides? Or why some mean people seem to having a good life, even though they are so wicked to their own family members and to other people? Some people tell me it is karma; some tell me it's God's will. Whatever it is, I guess there's no answer.

I tried talking to Him but He doesn't answer. I end up talking to myself.

Yes I did when i was younger, I always ask God why specially when I dont get what I want. Later i learned to accept and thank God for every failure I had, then i realized that he has a better ways for me. This time, everytime I am down, i pray and accept and i recieved more blessing from him. Before i thought that i can do it but when i failed i get angry and frustrated. This time i dont feel frustration anymore for i ask and pray for him before anything else.

Every one gets these thoughts once in a while that why he has done this to me ?? Why did it have to be me Why he always screw up my life and plans ?? But even if we face problems and failures in our life it doesn't mean that he does not love us. In fact we should look at the people who have less than us. I know that it is very difficult to think like this But sooner or later when we feel better we can look at those people and feel happy

I don't ask as many questions now, as He has given me most of the answers. Please continue to ask your questions. He will answer all the ones that are important. Note the assurance: Matthew 7:7-11 (New International Version) 7"Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. 8For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened. 9"Which of you, if his son asks for bread, will give him a stone? 10Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a snake? 11If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him! God is a loving Father who cares very much for you, as He does for me and everyone else. Don't stop asking till you receive an answer.

I think you are human. Everybody makes these types of question to God. Especially when we are suffering due to somebody's elses fault. It is during these moments that God tests our faith in him. I really admire you for thanking Him for the good things that you have in your life. © ronaldinu 2008

Sometimes I do feel the way you do, and then I recall the song "We'll understand it all by and by" and start to count my blessings and what I have, and think about those who don't even have the things I do. It kinds of gives me hope, that one day my ship will come in and I will have what is due to come my way. My Grandmother used to say "Patuence grasshopper, nothing happens before its time" and I believe her, because sometimes if certain events in my life had happened when I wanted it to, I don't think I would be the person I am today.

I think we all have times in our lives when we question ourselves. When we want to know or figure out why we act a certain way or feel a certain way. When we are unsure of ourselves. And I think, for the most part, that is a good thing. I don't think we ever get all the answers, but asking the question sometimes brings some answers.

That's envy, and tends to be seen as a bad thing. There's also the book of Job in the bible, where God allows everything to be taken away from a man who has done nothing wrong. These two things together should be encouragement enough to stop questioning God. However, not biblically, random chance will have it's way in any system incorporating free will. I don't have everything I might want in my life, either. However, I can make a choice to be happy with what I have. Unfortunately, it is the nature of people to be unhappy with what they have and always look for the greener grass on the other side of the fence.

Hi,it is interesting discussions.Sometimes I did it,but I believe in the fate,we can't change it!Thanks for your discussion!!

yes sometimes i question God why there are so many friends i know who have a complete happy family and they get what they want easily, unlike me, i have to sacrifice something in exchange of my desire to achieve a thing. i am sometimes a bitter person because there are so many things that i want to have but i just cannot because i am less favored, i am less charming and the people around me do not appreciate my existence. i am a strong person but what i hate about me is this very strong guts that tells me if a thing is for me or not, this month i am so disappointed because my boyfriend is suppose to come and we are both excited and then i felt that i dont think i deserved to be happy like this and this week i found out that he cannot make it this month but december. i am so sad, my friends have wonderful love life and for me, i feel that it is too hard to be happy with my life, sometimes i conclude that i am meant to fail but i will fight to change that perspective.

I always thank god for giving me this life,nice parents,nice friends,etc,. but sometimes we cant get wat we like and sometimes we are hatred.for these reasons we should not blame god.If we are accepting happiness then we should also accept some burdens.these burdens also also give us lot of experience.

Oh yes, we are allowed to question God because He is Abba Father.Ours is not a master/servant relationship but a father/son/daughter relationship. The very way we question our earthly parents about things we don't understand, our Father who is in heaven expects us to hold conversations with Him. But most importantly, we must also be able to listen so that we don't miss out on the answers he gives. He says: "Be still, and know that I am God."

Hi sheenarobins, I have spend much of my life questioning God, and I don't think it matters at all. God didn't make us to be puppets, so I think he expects us to ask questions. Life often seems unfair but that's only because we don't see the big picture. One thing that I have learned over the course of my lifetime is that things always work out for the best, but we rarely see it at the time. It is only much later when we look back that we see that there was a reason for each of these happenings. Never be afraid to ask questions but also except the fact that there is a purpose behind all things. Blessings.

yeah, but u have to try to remember that everything in life happens for a reason, even though u dont know the reason right away. and maybe in about 10 years from now, u will realize why it all had to happen like that. it is a part of a plan of your life already written out for you before u were born to live a certain way. very passionate people who suffer a lot usually become very good artists, whether dance, music, acting, painting, etc. maybe just pick your art, and go with the flow, and express your suffering in your choice of art. who knows what you will create and what will come out of it in the long run...

I think everybody feels like that at some time or other, i know i do! I used to think it a lot about a girl that used to be my friend, my boyfriend at the time cheated on me with her, i was more hurt by my friend's betrayal than his, i think that's one of the nastiest things she could have done, apart from that she tolda lot of lies to all our friends and stole money from lots of different people, anyway she has since gone on to be really successful, happily married with a good job and a nice house, i often wonder how that can be fair, i am very lucky in a lot of respects, but all i really want is to find a stable relationship, so how come she gets when i want when she is a nasty person??!? It's senseless to keep questioning it though because there is no rhyme or reason to it, we just have to accept it. I know that in times gone by people used to believe (and probably still do in some cases) that a hard life and lard work while we are alive would mean they would be rewarded for their suffering in the afterlife. xxxx

There is nothing wrong with asking god anything. I belive there was someone who did question jesus in the bible, and jesus told him it was okay, there was nothing wrong with asking questions. Plus if you didn't ask of anything, what kind of relationship would you have with god. One more thing, you seem to winning about how other people have it or at least seem to have life go by really. But do you actually know how easy they really do have it? Some people look great, there always happy and seem to be full of life and to just plainly have it all. The truth is you don't know what kind of issues or things they might have gone through to get there. You don't really know maybe they have issue with their family, from experience i can sit here and tell that everyone has somekind of seriouse issue that they can't get over. You see them they look greate, their family looks greate, their house, everything they have, their kids, everything is greate with and about these people. That is ofcourse as far as you know. Think about that, and how much worse you or other people could really have this life.

Most times I ask many questions to God and talk with God,especially when life would be unfair. Many times you end up asking why is it me who have to end up in difficult situations and as you said other peoples life seems to be so easy. I think this is all natural and as you said we should thank him that we are alive and healthy and t we should pray to him to keep his hands upon us and on every member of our family.

well, why not ? u can ask him ,and he will give u response as well but maybe u don't know that coz everybody will do many thing in their life but they don't think about that again i mean wich they did before right or wrong if they really think that what they did and it's right or wrong if they did right that means god gave u right way and response to u right ?...