Do u date your friend?help me out?
By albino001
@albino001 (154)
India
October 17, 2008 11:26am CST
i have a girl who n me are thick friends since my school days. we use to talk for long hours in night and often fight, play etc. together . she knows that i have an affair. here comes the problem i find her more attracted towards me. recently she asked me for a date. is her behavoir ok ?is dating a friend good?
3 responses
@shankari_prabhu (321)
• India
18 Oct 08
wat do u mean "Is her behaviour ok?"...Do u think u are not good enough for a girl to be attracted to u..;-) lol.....The best thing in life is to marry ur best friend......So its perfectly normal and ok for her to feel that way...
wat u need to do is date her if u are attracted to her....else tell her that u just think of her as a friend but she is a very special person in your life...U having an affair does not change any thing in ur friendship with her.Probably she might need some reassurance...
@flance101 (137)
• Philippines
18 Oct 08
how do you feel about her? are you attracted to her, too? if not, better keep your friendship. be honest and tell her that you just want to be friends with her. it will hurt her yes, but you just cant keep her hoping for something.
if you are attracted to her, maybe you can give it a chance. however, it would be better if you are free and not into an affair.
@outofluck (42)
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17 Oct 08
I think it depends on how much you vlue the friendship. If you dont wanna jeopardise the friendship then keep it just as a friend. Are you attracted to her, if so then why not go for the date and see what happens.
