wanted or needed

Hi outofluck! I believe love makes to be wanted and life makes to be needed.

in love it is better to be wanted than needed. i was always under the impression that if someone needed you they were using you to get whatever they needed. whereas if the person stays with you because they want to its because they love you and they choose to be with you and arent forced to as need does. i hate it when the person im with says that they need me. its not true because before i came along they were fine and doing well. im not essential to survival but i like to think that i add a little something to their lives that they want to keep. i feel better if im wanted. im chosen that way.

I think it better to be wanted and not needed because if the need goes away then they may not want you no more. I would say I would rather be wanted so I keep that person.