How you react if your close friend become enemy????
By KrishnaVeera
@KrishnaVeera (4133)
India
October 18, 2008 1:17am CST
i had a friend since 12 years, now he became as my great enemy because just for a girl.
without knowing we both were loving one girl. now that girl was rejected him and given warning in front of me. i surprised because i was not aware of his love and lover. what can i do this situation. friends give me some tips.... please
4 responses
@carmela0210 (1591)
• Philippines
18 Oct 08
why dont you talk to him and tell him you didnt know that he has feeling towardfs the girl and tell him you dont want to waste the 12 yeras of friendship by just a misunderstanding with a girl, but if he doesnt want to maybe he was not that true on his friendship with you!!!
@KrishnaVeera (4133)
• India
18 Oct 08
Carmela,
I had convenced him many times but still his acting as my enemy. Thanks for response will try once again to convenence. bacause i don't want to lose a good griends and his friendship.
@carmela0210 (1591)
• Philippines
18 Oct 08
ohhh ok!!sorry about that, but if he really is a ggod friend he would let you talk to him and know your side, and dont let your friendship be ruin with such things!!!CHEERS
@maroseqf (3657)
• Philippines
18 Oct 08
i would definitely feel very bad about it. actually, that instance already happened to me. i had a misunderstanding with my bestfriend (from college). it started in the email messages we have replied to each other. we, probably, are both not in a good mood that's why it happened. i felt really sad at that time. i thought i lost part of my life. i cried in our my work's restroom after that incident. and each day after that, i was thinking of how i could get back our friendship. it bothered me alot. we didn't communicate for a month or two. but one incident made us reconciled and forgot about what had happened. we are still bestfriends now like before. and though she is living out of the country now, we still don't forget to get in touch to each other.
@KrishnaVeera (4133)
• India
5 Nov 08
Hi Marose,
you really lucky to have a friend whose understanding you well and understanding your friendship.....
@virginia0813 (28)
• Australia
18 Oct 08
I don't think real friendship will change so easily, talk to your friend. If he is your real friend, he will understand you.
@nb_0702 (59)
•
3 Feb 09
Try to convince him once more, but don't loose your self respect. If he will react as the same he is doing now, then leave this matter and stop contacting him. Give him some time for realization that he should not react like this or he should not loose trust on you so easily.. If its true friendship he will come back soon. Now don't worry. Its life.
