Between your head and your heart
By tonniek02
@tonniek02 (457)
United States
October 18, 2008 9:17pm CST
How do you keep a relationship with someone who is sweet one minute and snaps the next over some of the stupidest things?
Life is hard enough to get through these day, trying to keep your stress down. But when your married to someone that something as little going into the next room sets them off. You find life is no fun and trying to walk on egg shells just doesn't work anymore. What would you do? It's a fight between my head and my heart! How do I know whats right?
2 responses
@dolon11 (7)
• United States
19 Oct 08
Hi Tonnie
Its really hard to take a decision when the issue related with both heart and head. Try to think like you are not married, but know this girl --- would you want to marry her ? If there is any % yes, talk with her. Tell her what you feel.
I believe no relation can go long without respect & trust for each other, then comes love.
@tonniek02 (457)
• United States
19 Oct 08
Hi dolon11
I thought we had trust and respect. He just played a good game till the I do's where said. And then about 2 years later. I started see the true him.. little by little and now after 15 years it all has strated came out.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
19 Oct 08
i understand where you are coming from i know someone like this i think they are crazy they think they can talk to you any sort way.one minute they kind ans the next a monster i think they have some head problem and needs help. try to treat you like a child.always want people to know they are running things get on my nerve listen to your head this sort person can be dangerous be careful.they have mood swings back farther.
@tonniek02 (457)
• United States
19 Oct 08
hi annjilena,
Thanks for the responce. And beleive me, I am careful. He has never hit me. But I think that is only because I keep my thoughts and feeling hidden down deep inside. I am scared to make him mad..
