distance..

hi kmurti it really depends on how strong your relationship is. maybe communication is also the key for a long distance relationship. once this is lost for sure the heart will wander. it will look for another wherein it can get attention and love. but is the relationship is strong, and there is communication, trust and loyalty the heart will fonder. it will really miss the one you love. take care

If the love is true then distance will enhance your love but if it is fake then one will forget the relation with time...

In my experience it grows fonder when you are apart for reasons sometimes not directly under you control. But if it is a delibrate attempt at keeping a distance then there may be a tendency for it to wander.

good thing i saw this blog.. my boyfriend is goin to singapore and he'll be leaving me so0n.. i don't know what would i feel... i'm really afraid,, maybe the love we feel for each other won't grow annymore... :(

I think that it can do both. If there's only distance occasionally then it can definitely help to make you appreciate each other and what you have. But if there's too much distance between a couple they can grow apart and start to lose their bond.

It all depends on how you communicate with your love one and how much you trust him/her. If there is connection whenever you talk over the phone, and it makes you happy everytime, then there is a chance for growth.

yeah i really think so!!!because i remember when the time that my boyfriend for 5 years, we are always together and i often hate it when he is always at my side as if we are only one person and he said likewise to him, and we decided that we should be apart from each other first even just for a month or lesser we'll just try if what will happen, really it makes our heart grew fonder for each other and wander!!happy lotting...

when I emigrated to Canada, I had a boyfriend back home for 2 years. He was wonderful and an amazing boyfriend, goodlooking and all. We had the perfect relationship, minus the little fights ;) Once I got to Canada, we still spoke, but I was already starting to look for someone else to fill in his spot. I guess I gave up the thought that we might be together SOMETIME, and just lived the moment, and went out with one of my class mates, who at the time asked me out. I told my oyfriend back home, and he didn't want to hear from me. We did speak a couple of times since then, and he said he still can't talk to me bc he is hurt, and I regret hurting him, but there was no chance that we would be together, even though we both loved each other. I doubt that distance would make you love people more, unless, it's for a short while that you are away.