why to change youself only for others sake.Always be yourself
By minukemani
@minukemani (9)
India
October 19, 2008 1:48am CST
Is it necessary to forget your identity your own characteristic and live like others want.Or why to copy others (in lifestyle,dressing,attitude,etc) for becoming an attractive and impressive personality.though you are not comfortable with that get up and surrounding but to be in group and people admire you,you are doing all this.
Cant people accept you for what you are why the need to change yourself.
try be yourself it will make you happy from inside and you have your identity and unique personality
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5 responses
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
19 Oct 08
well i made lot of changes in my life, but it was for me,wife and kids. but i don't worry about fitting in anymore or changing for others.
to me here i am take me as i am or the hell with it.. i figure i treat and respect everyone good no matter what
@minukemani (9)
• India
20 Oct 08
ya its true why to change for other if they love you then they will definetly accept you for what your are and they wont demand for change yourself.But if the change is for your betterment which increases your respect dignity in other people then y shouldn't we change don't change.Man If the change is done for good purpose then do it.
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
20 Oct 08
no i really had issues.. like with drinking and my temper.. they were out of control. it was for the best to change.. my wife and kids don't feel like they have to walk on egg shells
@skbh12 (2946)
• Philippines
19 Oct 08
[b]hi minukemani!
for me changing my identity or characteristic has to come from me, myself alone. i have to change for the bettermen of myself not just because that is what others want me to do. i have to change my personality into something i would smile and be proud of..
happy posting and happy mylotting![/b]
@minukemani (9)
• India
20 Oct 08
hello its good to listen such a nice thoughts u have.But here i am discussing about the thing that a person is changing himself/herself not for his or her,for betterment but to copy others to increase their demand only for the sake of being famous in public .
But the change is for good purpose which makes you happy as well as people of your surrounding then its well n good.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
19 Oct 08
I have always lived my way, I was never influenced by my peers, I believe it is ok to be different, I can remember going to parties and the only one that didn't drink and smoke but i still had a great time. In fact I quite like being unique and not just follow the crowd and fashion...
@dolce_vita78 (8062)
• Philippines
20 Oct 08
Hi there minukemani!
I have always been unique. I do not want being just like other people. I would prefer to have my own personality. I always have believed that we do not have to pretend to be who we are not just to make a good impression. I believe that people should be happy and proud about who they are. If people love us, they should accept us for who we really are and not what they want us to be.
@luckymom08 (20)
• Philippines
19 Oct 08
You're right... That is my principle in life.. I've always been myself... and People around me respect that.. They know my personality...Nevertheless, I respect people's perception about me..Most of the person I met said that I'm unique co'z I'm frank but sensitive to other's feelings too.... For as long as i'm not hurting anybody.. I could do what I want...What's the most rewarding part of being me....Most of my acquaintances are following my principle in life...And they are happy for doing so...
