would you get yourself pregnant just to hook a guy?

Philippines
October 19, 2008 11:53pm CST
i am just wondering, to what extent would you do if you really like a guy? will you just wait until such time that the guy would take notice at you and like and love you as much as you do or would you do anything just to hook a guy under your clutches, up to the extent of having yourself pregnant?
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10 responses
@Tianna2 (1273)
• United States
20 Oct 08
I would never use any trikery to hook a guy, maybe thats why I havent gotten married yet. I definetly wouldnt get pregnant for that purpose. I believe that if I need to go to those grea links, he doesnt really want to be with me in the first place and would probably end in divorce. I've been waiting for the right guy before I have children again(I gave my first up for adoption). I have no wants on becoming a single mother. Hugs, Tianna
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• Philippines
20 Oct 08
you are right when you said that this is really a form of trickery and even if you hook the guy in marriage this kind of realtionship will never work out for he will not be happy with you and eventually the child will just suffer what it. thanks for the post and have a great day!!!
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
20 Oct 08
not to the point of getting pregant for no man just hook up with him if this the only way i can get a man then forget it
• Philippines
20 Oct 08
i totally agree with you. i would marry someone without love just because of pregnancy. that would really be a sick thing to do.
• Philippines
20 Oct 08
for course not! i will just be myself, if he wont like me the way i am, well, its his lost i wont push myself to him if he didnt like me. i will be just a loser if i will get myself pregnant to win him.
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
i totally agree with you friend. that would surely be a lose-lose situation and you will just suffer from it. thanks for the post!!!
@flance101 (137)
• Philippines
22 Oct 08
My answer is one big NO! Definitely not. Why would I force someone to get to love me? I'd prefer to be loved honestly. Also, I dont flirt, in fact I dont know how to flirt! I'm a girl, and my friends of my age know how to, and some of them are quite into that thing. Maybe I can try, but thats just not me. :P Back to the topic, if I am in love with a guy, yeah, maybe I'd just wait and see if feels the same way. Like i said, i wish to find an honest love, where someone would fall in love with me because I am me. :)
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
that's right, i don't have to look for love let love look for you. i know you are quite young and you will surely find a man who will love you with all his heart. thanks for the post!!!
@jesssp (2712)
• Canada
20 Oct 08
Never ever! Ever! I would like to hope that there are very few woman that would, but sadly I suspect there are quite a lot. I can't imagine creating another life just to get something you want, that's beyond selfish. I know that accidents happen, but to me a child should be conceived when two people love each other and intend on staying together forever. It should absolutely be a joint decision and never be used as a tool.
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
i agree, a life should be born out of love between to people who plans to start a family together and looking for a future together. thanks for the post!!!
@Lucifey (93)
• China
21 Oct 08
I will never do that to myself. If he love me, I'll happily have a baby with him. However, get myself pregnant just to hook a guy will never happen in my life. I should say that only the dumpest women will hurt themseflves through these dumpest behavior.
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
hi there, thanks for sharing your thoughts and i can't argue. have a great day!!!
@anne12d (676)
• Philippines
20 Oct 08
I wouldn't do such thing that making myself pregnant just to hook up with the guy I like. Because if the guy doesn't like me at all, even if I'm pregnant both our lives will be miserable together or separated. It would be selfish to do such thing. And the baby will suffer from never ending fights and there is no love to share. Sometimes, love is never learned even if it tried.
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
i totally agree with you. all parties will just suffer and you are just putting another life, that is the baby, too suffer too. have a great day!!!
• United States
20 Oct 08
Never in a million years would I do something so selfish. When that woman finally gets pregnant, what if the guy doesn't want her? What is she going to do now? Especially since she has a baby on the way? In my opinion, it's selfish, wrong, and irresponsible.
• Philippines
20 Oct 08
thanks for the post. you put it all in a nutshell and i totally agree. have a great day!!!
@carmela0210 (1591)
• Philippines
20 Oct 08
nuhhhhh!!!but its ok with me to get pregnant especially if the guy is the one i truly love, but i wont ask him to marry me if he doesnt want to, if he is not really going to marry me!!anyways i could afford maybe a child even with out him, what matters most on me is the baby!!!having husband or boyfriend doesnt say that they will not leave you!!i notice that more often now many are separating even long time marriage!!!happy lotting...
@Emilyzhu (147)
• China
20 Oct 08
In my opinion ,this is such a foolish method .If I love a guy who do not love me ,but I STILL DON'T WANT TO GIVE UP .i will try my best to let him understand my beautiful heart ,my innocence ,then I believe that he will love me in the end ,If this would not affact ,that is to say he donnot love me at all ,then why shall I do foolish things just to hook a guy's herat who doesn't love me at all .
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
thanks for the post and have a great day!!!