If you have been into strong quarrels with your boyfriend frequently?

Before I answer my question, what do you mean when you said that you fall into silence for a long time? A week? A month? As for me, we have strong quarrels lately, and it's more about not having time together, and some petty reasoning that led both of us into feeling a little neglected, but the fight doesn't really last for days, it's usually just hours. But I see that these 'quarrels' have led us more closer to each other. There's nothing like spending time mending the hurt feelings and just cuddling. =) As for your question. Hmmm... When you said that whenever you quarrel you are hardly choked, maybe it's a manifestation of either you're sure that whatever happens there wouldn't be any thoughts of separating, that or maybe you just don't feel that you're really inlove or you want the relationship to go on? Whew, it's tough but sooner or later you need to really think deep if you're wasting your time, right?