husband being so busy at work.

My husband is also busy with his work and he works away from home so he can only go home every weekend. Sometimes he still have work during weekend so it's very seldom that we can discuss things or simple talk. We do argue and does have petty fights but we can solve them easily. Most of the time, I just keep on quite and just listen on what he's saying.

If you are stay at home mom and your not so busy try to give way to your husband. Like me I'm also a stay at home mom and my husband go for his job, I'll be the one who understand him especially if he is tired. I opened up a discussion which make him feel comportable which made him relax, like his favorite topic. Just make yourself lovely but not too obvious just be in a simple way. Offered him his favorite coffee or any kind of refreshing to eased his tirednss. A little sacrifice for marriage not to be broken caused in a simple steps of negligence couples maybe fall. But don't forget the most important source, it is a "give and take relationship."

you only feel neglected if you're not busy yourself. i think you should be more understanding of your husband because he is working for you but of course, you should plan an occasional time for each other. i can say this because between my hubby and i, i'm the one who works overtime at the office and i'm almost always tired.

try to act likes nothing is wrong.When hes a home find other things to do? try not talking to him but yet acting as though your buisy doing something else, maybe that would seek his attenion? Or you can try dressing all sexay ? so that when he comes home you would be the only thins on his mind! LOL

I always grab a chance to share my feeling onto my husband when he is not busy and relax. He always listen to me and we were able to exchange so much thoughts of each others openly. I hope you are able to find some suitable time to talk to your husband too.

you should understand your husband's hard,in order to a home,a man of the Federation of Hong Kong to work very hard to feed a family,he is the pillar of the family,career, men will always have a lot of difficulties,trouble,Home when then are most happy because at home there is about him,his beloved wife,sons and doughters,as housewives,women should be more support for him and give him the warmth of home,so will have ahappy life.

H[i]i Nhey, My hubby is the same but we always try to spend the most during weekends where we can spend time together and go out to unwind! But, during weekdays, he is really busy and I know during night even TV time, he is tired but I guess we just need to understand them and tell our partner also how we feel about it without demanding! SO, for you, maybe you will suggest for a vacation during special holiday and make the most during weekends![/i]

wow, 10 years is a long time to know each other. you should not need to feel neglected because he work for your family, all you need to do is to support him. i am married for 2 years, 9 months and 7 days now, i know we still have to know each other, we have 2 kids one boy and one girl, and we both working. we only see each other at night.

Since you're married for 10 years now i assume you and your husband must have created a foundation already. So i wonder how you find it hard to open up to especially about your needs. I mean there should be open communication right? If he's busy with work then i guess he should realize that he has a wife to attend to.

try to focus yourself into other things, maybe you keep on thinking bout him that he is neglecting you because he is the only thing thats in your mind, aside from your kids ofcourse, but try to stick into something that would really made your day not boring!!try working out, youll look more sexy and beautiful and maybe your husband would notice that,heheh, and eventually go out in your second honeymoon!!lol, hey i talk much as if i know lots about this thing, actually im not married yet but just hope this things would help!!

the best way to commmunicate your feeeling with him is to talk with him.Just remeber to do these when both of you are not tired and stresses.Be sure that both of you are in a good modd and in a good state of mind.You might not send y=the message clear if you attempt to talk with him after work or before going to work.make sure your timing is perfect.No problem cannot be resolved in a peaceful and mature manner.So,do a few massages on his forehead,do cute crazy stuffs with him,then open the topic.Im pretty sure it will make the realtionship better and he will definetely understand you. Godbless and see you more in mylot!