Puzzled about friendship

China
October 20, 2008 7:12am CST
I used to have a very good friend ,but now we don't know how to treat our relations. We were too close that my wife envied us and sometimes quarreled with me for that.So now when we meet each other ,we don't know what to say .And I also can't be so devoted to my wife.I'm very puzzled .What can I do to keep the friendship,but still have my wife believe in me and not mind my friendship?
4 responses
airl1527
@airl1527 (355)
• China
22 Oct 08
Envy is one of the woman's nature. You can't change it. I think your actions might have aroused suspects from your wife. She has been aware of that. Your words and actions can't change her mind once the suspect has been estalished. If you can't find a solution, i suggest you leave your friend and stay by your wife. Except your parents, your wife and son are more important to you. Don't you think so, my friend.
hebeiytqiang
@hebeiytqiang (11)
• China
28 Oct 08
Thank you my dear friend .Now I've left the abnnoying place I used to work and live . I feel quite pleased with my condition now.And ,without the nervousness from work and life ,we live a pleasant and harmonious life.So personally enjoying wife with my wife and daughter is what I must to do now.
airl1527
@airl1527 (355)
• China
23 Oct 08
Add me as your friend. So that i can leave comments.
smallp1
@smallp1 (87)
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20 Oct 08
i think it's a thorny problem... women are always so sensitive,so not make them feel insecure.... if your wife is a wise woman,that's not the problem,but that's not. in my opinion,you two can keep in touch with each other,but no so close and so often...
smallp1
@smallp1 (87)
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20 Oct 08
i think it's a thorny problem...maybe you two shouldn't be so close,after all women are very sensitive...if your wife is a wise woman ,that's not a problem,but the truth is not that ..so i suggest that you can keep in touchwith her,not so often...don't let your wife be unsecure````^-^