Why Dont I have Friends

Hi Crissy, welcome to mylot! I would guess that I'm a lot older than you are so let me share some of my experiences with you. I have dealt with a lot of people in my life and I have found that the ones who are the most liked are the ones who pay attention to others. The best way to make a new friend is to ask questions. This allows that person to share with you and, in return, you have the opportunity to share, too. This is how we learn about each other and what we have in common. You also have to be interesting if you're going to have friends and to be kind. I'm not sure what you mean by "bad ways" but if you get into bad moods and take it out on others they are going to avoid you. In order to be interesting you have to have things that interest you...movies, games, books, sports. If you like these things and meet someone who likes them, too, you automatically have things to talk about and to do. Most importantly, keep trying. I have a best friend of over 30 years who I didn't really like that much in the beginning but, we were neighbors and the more time we spent together, the more I liked her. We live 1,000 miles apart now but we talk on the phone at least twice each week...for over an hour each time. Hang in there.

Hi Crissy for you have good friends is that first you must be a good listener. Also spend time with your friend even a short period of time only. Since you're saying that you are caring that is a good sign that you will be a good friend. Trust is also important in friendship. Good luck and i do hope you will find a sincere and trustyworthy friend. Have a nice day!