Life is to short tostay mad or hold grudges
By heaven11
@heaven11 (1159)
United States
October 20, 2008 11:41pm CST
Ive never really listened when people have said to me life is too short to hold grudges now I realize after my stepdads passing its the truth 2 weeks prior to his passing we were in another huge arguement as usual I always pick the stupid stuff to argue over anywyas once again I told him I was done with him figureing in the back of my head Id get over it like normal and things would be good again well guess what I didnt have the time he passed away I never got to tell him I loved him I never got to appolgize I never got to hug him I never got to say that last goodbye to him and now I have nothing but regrets even though I know he knew I loved him and I was sorry its not the same because I didnt get to tell him befor he went
my advice to everyone yes your gonna get mad but befor you leave that house or you hang that phone up put away your pride tell them you love them tell them your sorry because you never know if youll ever get that chance again
Life really is to short to let it me filled with madness toward people
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2 responses
@23uday (2997)
• India
21 Oct 08
Hi even i agree that life is short to hold grudges.Every moment of life has to be enjoyed to the fullest,as life is like a water bubble and one cant say when it bursts out.Life is really very beautiful and its a platter of both sorrow and happniness.Everyone has their own problems yet they can be if they wonna be.Without
sorrow,we cant know the value of happiness and in this short span of life one cant think of holding grudges.One can really very happy if he forgives his enemys and bestows love and affection on them.And we cant get back the time wasted so live in the present and enjoy all the moments of life whether its good or bad.
@koikoikeiji (356)
• Japan
21 Oct 08
Hi there heaven11. I want to thank you for sharing this at mylot, I gained something from it. Yes life is to short to stay mad or hold grudges. Thats is why people advice that we have to live or day as if it is our last. Yes it is probabaly too hard not to be mad to other people, but we have to try to forgive or say sorry right away, we have to fix things up always not make it worst. If we can do that, maybe everyday will be a very peaceful day. Have a nice day!!!!!
@heaven11 (1159)
• United States
23 Oct 08
your right there is goingto be a time where you are mad for some reason or another but befor you leave that person you must say sorry and I love you If its your worst enemey its important tostill say sorry because if somthing was to happen tothem You will still feel quilty
