Unmarried in your 30's
By Lilchele36
@Lilchele36 (139)
United States
October 21, 2008 12:20am CST
What do you think of people who are not married in their 30's but say that they want to get married? do they really want to get married or are they scared too?
4 responses
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
21 Oct 08
Maybe they still finding the right person for them even they wanna settle down. They are finding the love that they want to feel and they can't still find that love yet. I don't think they are scared to go in a relationship, maybe their still focus with other priorities beside relationship. Good night!
@Lilchele36 (139)
• United States
21 Oct 08
yeah your right some people are better off single or never get married, it is up to them to choose.
thankx
@ketybhagat (4123)
• India
21 Oct 08
Actually 30s is not such a big age. You actually start living at 30s. You complete your education by 22 or so and then you start working. It takes some years to be able to stand comfortably on your feet and look after a family, so 30 is fine. Some people get married late for this reason, some because they are too happy enjoying life to be tied down. But ultimately I feel that everybody should have a partner, sooner or later, to be a companion to us when we turn old. Some may put off getting married early in life due to family commitments. Whatever the reason, 30 is not old to me.
@Lilchele36 (139)
• United States
21 Oct 08
yeah, i understand, for that reason, that is probably why alot of guys don't talk about marriage or getting married in their early days. They have to take care of the household
thankx
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
21 Oct 08
It's hard to say because you can't put people into one box and expect everyone to fit. Some may still be single because of commitment fears but there are probably many singles in that age group who have just been busy getting their education and focusing on their careers. Time can fly by and suddenly you realize that you're not in your 20's anymore.
@Lilchele36 (139)
• United States
21 Oct 08
yeah your right, i have some older fiends in that age range that are not married, and did not want to offend by asking, jus wondering why.
thankx