What would you do if you are already married and you realized you love your ex?!

Let us just assume this is the condition you are facing right now. You have just got married to your husband for a year and suddenly you saw your ex-boyfriend and suddenly you think you still love him. First of all, if I were you I would make a list. I will ask myself why I got married in the first place. Is it because my ex-boyfriend left me? If that is the answer, then you should better forget your boyfriend because he is useless to you. If he could leave you once upon a time ago, he could do it again, no doubt about that. Then you should ask again. If you don't love your husband, then why marry him in the first place? After you ask this question you will realize that you are the one who is not responsible enough with the decision you have made in your life. You should think carefully before you do anything and the same goes when you decide to get married. If now only you know you are no longer in love with your husband, I think there maybe something wrong in your intentions when you first wanted to get married to him. Forgive me, but this is only my opinion and this situation is not yours, just an imagination, right? Anyway I hope you have the best in life and may god bless you always. Happy thoughts!

I think youare greedy,you want to have two people,rather than love them,you love none,since you choose your husbund,I think you consider he is the best one,and siutable for you,you should have a happy life with him,and not think about those things have in the past. I also had this experience,but I tried to forget him,and now I live a happy life,and I love my husbund,you shouldn't let the past impact your life. Wish you have a good life!

It is very natural and not so rare thing.But in this case it must be kept in mind that it is very touchy situation. it can ruin relationships, life. so take the things very acrefully

I'd sit still with those feelings. You and your husband have a year of marriage and then the dating time as opposed to 3 months with this guy? If you could not make it work for more than 3 months do you really think it'd be wise to give up this happy marriage? I would suggest that you spice things up within your marriage and get your mind of this guy. I don't think you are in love with your ex. I think that maybe it ended unfinished and you are being drawn out of curiosity. Please don't risk what you have over something that more then likely would not go anywhere.

If Ever i will be on that situation and hoping it wont happened to me.... maybe on the first i can't easily move on but i believe that everything change in GODs well especially if my husband wont expect from me of course everything change in the right time and i have to convince my self that i get married to a better one and God has a reason why he give to me my husband.. i have to give enough time for myself to heal the wound then by the time i already move on i have to spend all my time to my husband and show him how lucky I am that he came to my life! actually it is not my lost if we are not meant to be with my ex and that is his lost ..... everything chance i swear especially if your husband is really nice person... you will learn to love him and accept him as a whole without any hesitate anymore..