why is it not a problem when a black guy is in a relationship with a white woman
By annjilena
@annjilena (5618)
United States
October 21, 2008 1:51pm CST
but it,s a problem when black woman is in a relationship with a white man why is this .why you can,t have a relationship whomever you want no matter what race it happen to be. why do the black man have such a problem with a black woman being with a white man.
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5 responses
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
21 Oct 08
I think it depends on the area and country you are talking about. Taboos and racism still exist. I find that strange because people having problems with mixed marriages won't make distinction if it is a black man or woman who is getting to a white person. © ronaldinu 2008
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@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
21 Oct 08
the last sentence shoud hav read.. black man or woman who is getting married to a white person
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
22 Oct 08
most black men don,t have a problem dating are marry a white woman the problem come in when the woman is black and he is white do they feel threaten what is it.
@lovelyladydancing (1016)
• United States
21 Oct 08
As a white woman who likes black men, believe me, plenty of people still have a problem with it. I just like darker skin. I think black people are beautiful. I think people should be with who they want. Grab love where you can find it!
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@annjilena (5618)
• United States
21 Oct 08
i appreciate you honesty i feel that color should not be a issue but it bothers some people to see interracial relationship i don,t have a problem with it but some black men get angry when a black woman date a white man but it,s ok for them to date a white woman what cause this feeling i wonder.
@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
21 Oct 08
I think BOTH situations are wrong...and it sickens me...I don't believe in inter-racial relationships...
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
21 Oct 08
i can respect how you feel thank you so much for sharing
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@eddie42 (270)
• United States
22 Oct 08
i don,t have problem with it but this does happen i often hear black men speak about this they really have a problem with it but it,s ok for them to marry are date a white woman what beening a black man when this does happen who cares to each it,s on.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
24 Oct 08
thats true love don,t have eyes and who you fall in love with really the heart don,t care what color you are all it knows it feels for that person and want to care for them.
@ms1323 (259)
• United States
21 Oct 08
I know what you are saying. My sister-in-law is black, my brother-in-law is white, they will get some nasty looks from black men - but also any other small minded person. I don't know why this happens or if it happens more from black men in particular. They are both very strong people and just laugh it off, they really do find it funny that people should try to judge them for being together simply bcz they are of a different race. I love them for that (and many other reasons!)
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
24 Oct 08
i dont blame your in-law for feeling this way because it don,t matter as long as he love her and care for her thats all that counts.
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@annjilena (5618)
• United States
22 Oct 08
a lot of people try to ignore this is happening but it is happening i see it all the time if you look different then another person a lot people are races against you i don,t know why when we bleed the same we have different backgrounds and yet to be enlove why is it not enough for most.
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@ms1323 (259)
• United States
23 Oct 08
I told my sis-in-law about this last night...she said that they are so used to it now that most of the time they just don't even notice it anymore (they've been together for 13 years.) She also said she thinks it happens equally among all races. My bro-in-law said "ah, F*** em, they're ignorant and have absolutely no impact on our lives."
