My bitter sister in law
By NiceCezle
@NiceCezle (57)
Philippines
October 22, 2008 4:13am CST
I have a sister in law that is really bitter with her life, she felt that everybody dont like her bcoz of me, before we have a good way of communication but everything changed when she started to be jealous the way our in-laws treated me. And now she is pushing hard to let me down. To the extent that she wants to hurt me physically. Im trying to make ways to make thing work again between the two of us, but she is becoming unreasonable now. The worst part is she never respect my in laws now. I wanted to talk to her but my husband always stopped me. What should i do? What is the best approach so i can talk and settle everything between us?
2 responses
@carmela0210 (1591)
• Philippines
22 Oct 08
i think you should talk to her nicely, if you wont talk to her immediately there are possibilities that it will worsen the things, try to have a talk with her in a civil manner, i dont think she will think youre up into something if you go talk to her nicely...shes a hell lot of unreasonable when she wont talk at you still, if that happens just ignore her!!!you dont have to please everybody!!!happy lotting and thank you for sharing...
@NiceCezle (57)
• Philippines
22 Oct 08
thanks for ur respnse, the last time i tried to talk to her she threw the soap holder on my face.... she is a violent women, our neighbors said i should stay away from her coz she grew up in a squatter area so she didnt knew the right etiquette to face people... but i dont think so it's a reason
@carmela0210 (1591)
• Philippines
22 Oct 08
whoa!!too violent huh??well what can i say??maybe just ignore her, anyways yu dont have to please hereand its not your problem anymore, its her, youve done your part, but if still she doesnt want to talk to you then its her loss not yours, maybe somehow she would realize that, for the time being just ignore her!!!
hey you just new here??happy lotting and welcome in mylot community hope you enjoy it hereas much as we do!!!!keep lotting my friend and thanks for sharing...
@entrepreneurgirl (273)
• United States
27 Oct 08
Honestly, just ignore her. She is burning her own bridges and her true self is coming out. She'll realize what she's done later. Just stay away from her as much as you can and don't step on any toes. She will regret her decisions later. My sister in law was the spoiled princess who was evil to me and her brother (my husband) but her parents didn't believe us because she played "nicey nicey" in front of everyone else. Then one day her cruel side was shown and she started acting bratty to them and they saw the truth. The truth will come out someday and she will get what she has had coming to her. Just hang tight.
