love is selfish?

hmm it actually depend on the way you take it...love is selfish to an extent infact more than an extent but that itself is the sweetness that bonds love between two human beings....love gives you an insight of how mean you can turn...how conscious you can become about others...and to an extent these are some good facts about selfish as you tend to devote time for your loved ones....:)

Of course love is selfish. I remembered that I was having this argument with my best friend. I was thinking that love is not selfish until he gave me one good reason why love must be selfish. Love is not selfish only when you were able to share the one you love with another lover and you are still happy with the relationship. And that's definitely impossible.

In a way love is selfish. But without being selfish we cant love anybody. and if at all we love also we cant have them in our life. So being little selfish in love is good. But that should have a limit it should not exceed the limits. Then it will be dangerous.

Yes, love is selfish. Because i myself am selfish. I love my dear so much that i won't share him with others, that is my first selfish. I miss my dear so much that i hung on the phone with him every morning and night, that is my second selfish. I love him so much that i won't let him think of other lady, that's my third selfish. Yes, love is selfish because i love him so dearly and so much.

Love basically starts with thinking about self (a sort of selfishness). Thus, to some extent, love starts with thinking about what one wants. However, love blooms to something deeper as time passes.