Do You Consider giving another chance when HE/SHE cheated on you twice?
By patriarch18
@patriarch18 (73)
Philippines
October 22, 2008 9:55pm CST
i've never been cheated even once you i will just leave to you guys..
what is your view.
9 responses
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
I think twice is to much! If she could do it to me twice well she could do it again and again and making me a fool or stupid. I don't think so I deserve to be treated that way especially when you given everything you got. I'll just move on and better leave my life alone than somone who doesn't think or feel my importance. Have a nice day!
@patriarch18 (73)
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
yes, maybe once is a little bit of mistake but twice that would be a mortal sin
@sirrob (4108)
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
once is enough, twice is too much and the rest is history. what's the point of trusting that person if that person committed the same mistake and that is the very foundation of a relationship. would it not be a headache for you every time your other half is away? would you not think of something bad or doubt or have second thoughts that your other half won't cheat again to you? although human being has rational minds and capable of change but that is a process that needs to clear out before giving the person the third chance which i believe is very slim at all.
@Jade13 (262)
• Malaysia
23 Oct 08
If you cheated me once, I can forgive you and give you another chance. But if it happens again, I don't think I will be as forgiving as before. I will give me myself a 2nd chance and bid farewell. If he can do it the 2nd time after you forgave him/ her. I think he/she can do it again and again to you.
@bdugas (3578)
• United States
23 Oct 08
Once you find that your spouse has cheated on you, depending on how you feel and you give a second chance, and then find out again they are doing it, I think that is enough. I believe everyone deserves a second chance, everyone makes mistakes and most are sorry and promise not to do it again. But that second time shows me that either it is something they can't control, or or tht is just the type of person they are, and care less about your feeling but what satisfys them. I say one ok, after tht boot them out. Unless this is the type of life that you want, cause it isn't going to change.